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@Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

@Dog very true.. But if I don't believe in that (the better option) what shall I believe?

You just need to practise regularly to feel less pain...to become like a robot to feel less pain

That we all live a long painful life and in the end we die and go to heaven or hell?

Changing lifestyle and mindset will most likely help.

very possibly, heaven and hell exist. But i think it is very complicated who will go to heaven or hell. And i think the controller of our destiny will be very flexible in deciding who will go to hell and heaven...

Now, it is also very possible that heaven and hell doesn't exist. So we need some basis to believe in them?
And I have personally found out very good reasons why heaven and hell most likely exist which is very inspiring...

it started with my personal suffering in life. So i needed to focus on the unseen world of spirituality/religiosity and to detach my mind from the material world

It is also very unlikely that a very complex and organized intelligent creature like humans exist without any higher consciousness and higher goal

Life is completely dependent on cruelty:
Approximately 40-50%(i guess) kids bully at school which indicates how inherently sadist and dangerous humanity is.

Cruelty,sorrow and injustice are essential parts of how life functions and it is part of the heavenly design(Someone intentionally designed reality this way): A life must feed on another life and oppress another life to survive, even in cases it happens within a species.

Consciously detaching from reality might help even if temporarily....

@Rissa_TheBest
Cruelty,pain and extreme injustice are essential parts of nature and humanity. May be the god/creator/whatever people say intentionally designed this world this way.
And no, it is a very common misconception that the God is 100% loving which He is certainly not

But there should be some psychological hacks to not feel the emotional pains. This is why organized Abrahamic religions like Islam,Christianity etc. exist so that oppressed and depressed individuals can find solace amidst all the cruelty of life.

A very good psychological hack to lessen emotional suffering is to know and understand sufferings(which are much worse) of other individuals from the past and present.
Here I found some incredible sufferings(these are recorded historic documents) experienced by some people:
https://www.quora.com/What-dangers-did-they-encounter-by-resisting-slavery

Read the 1st answer which contains the documented extreme suffering by some individuals so that you may find solace

@Rikke-b Would you rather be a good person or an evil person?
Would you rather be a kind person or a cruel person?

@Tarique-Shaikh

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"Ask the population that doesn’t suffer from depression...

….the Kaluli people.

What’s their secret? Keep reading to find out.

It started when an anthropologist in 1986 scoured the Highlands of New Guinea to study the prevalence of depression.

He wasn’t really expecting much. But what he discovered after surveying 2,000 Kaluli tribe members, shocked his expectations.

His discovery?

That the Kaluli people have virtually ZERO depression (in exception of one case).

That’s amazing. Especially when we consider they don’t have ANY of our medicine or comforts.

They also suffer from much more stressful life events than us (high infant mortality rates, violent deaths, and parasitic infections).

Yet, they have WAY lower depression rates than almost every civilized population on Earth.

The same was found with other Hunter Gatherers like the Thai-Lao of Thailand, Toraja of Indonesia, and even the Amish.

How is it possible that primitive people — who live much harder lives than we do — rarely suffer from depression?

The secret lies in their lifestyle habits.

More specifically, two things:

Exercise
Hobbies
Let’s breakdown the first lifestyle habit:

Exercise

Almost 100% of Kaluli people get adequate exercise.

In comparison, only 23% of Americans get ‘adequate’ exercise.

What’s one major side effect of not exercising?

Depression.

As researchers recently discovered, exercise is AS effective as an antidepressant in treating depression (without the side effects).
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@somemale22 Are you native-Arabic speaker?
If yes then please translate(give all literal English translations) the Arabic sentences above

Please translate these sentences into English literally:

وَٱلسَّمَآءَ بَنَيْنَـٰهَا بِأَيْي۟دٍۢ وَإِنَّا لَمُوسِعُونَ
and
وَٱلْأَرْضَ فَرَشْنَـٰهَا فَنِعْمَ ٱلْمَـٰهِدُونَ

Please give all the literal translations possible.

And also
Does the 1st sentence mention "expanding" in present continuous or past tense or future tense?
Is the "expansion" part in verb form or noun form?

@Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

living is the curse,

The problem is that people have emotions more or less. It is important to train to not feel negative emotions. This is why forcing religious beliefs on children is so important to train them to feel less negativity

because with death comes peace

No, it is just a popular belief. May be because many people think that our mind is essentially dependent on the existence of our body. it is a belief. Logically, it is very possible that our mind will even exist without our body. So, suicide may not give people peace as the mind may still exist

@Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

@Dog I see. Um, thanks for explaining that, I think I understand a bit more and btw you know how to wright some inspiring words.. that's besides the point though.

Sometimes I am depressed,tired and crazy and i say and write things in a disorderly manner which may not make sense :relieved:

@Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

Sometimes I wanna not exist, I don't wanna die and I'm not suicidal, I just want to not exist. But what I noticed is that Death seems more inviting then life and you don't truly understand depression until you can't stand your own presence in an empty room, but I miss me, the old me, the happy me, the smiling me, the bright me, the laughing me, the gone me..

Lol. Same has happened to me. may be it happens to most people. and sometimes i behave drunk when depressed wasting time writing meaningless things...

may be fear of afterlife stops many people from suicide ig

@Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

everyone's gonna feel deep pain at least once in their life but something about this feeling doesn't feel normal..

No! everyone probably doesnt face depression no matter how cruel life is...
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"Ask the population that doesn’t suffer from depression...

….the Kaluli people.

What’s their secret? Keep reading to find out.

It started when an anthropologist in 1986 scoured the Highlands of New Guinea to study the prevalence of depression.

He wasn’t really expecting much. But what he discovered after surveying 2,000 Kaluli tribe members, shocked his expectations.

His discovery?

That the Kaluli people have virtually ZERO depression (in exception of one case).

That’s amazing. Especially when we consider they don’t have ANY of our medicine or comforts.

They also suffer from much more stressful life events than us (high infant mortality rates, violent deaths, and parasitic infections).

Yet, they have WAY lower depression rates than almost every civilized population on Earth.

The same was found with other Hunter Gatherers like the Thai-Lao of Thailand, Toraja of Indonesia, and even the Amish.

How is it possible that primitive people — who live much harder lives than we do — rarely suffer from depression?

The secret lies in their lifestyle habits.

More specifically, two things:

Exercise
Hobbies
Let’s breakdown the first lifestyle habit:

Exercise

Almost 100% of Kaluli people get adequate exercise.

In comparison, only 23% of Americans get ‘adequate’ exercise.

What’s one major side effect of not exercising?

Depression.

As researchers recently discovered, exercise is AS effective as an antidepressant in treating depression (without the side effects)...."(Source: https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-avoid-getting-depressed)
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