i can be v your friend I'm 46
Friends being clingy and general angst
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@cant-breathe Wowwwwws that's shitty
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@cant-breathe ouch at least it seems like you had the last laugh? still that level of betrayal my god
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@Deimat she was the type of person who always made u feel like u were not worthy of her friendship turns out she was just an insecure backstabbing ditch pig that needed to tear people down to bring herself up... She lives in her sad little lie every day... Knowing that makes me feel better... Is that wrong of me?
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@cant-breathe some people may say otherwise but if they broke you down like that for 27 years and you were sensible enough to not kill them I feel you like feeling joy out of the lie that is their life is deserved seeing as you've grown and moved on without them.
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Thank you
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What's ur most messed up "friend monent"
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does girlfriend count? basically we had no communication which was both of our faults I'm not saying that I didn't contribute but basically she ended up breaking up with me over text, making up a story about me dating two people during my time dating her (which she probably got the idea from my poor friend), and then asked her ex in which was my friend and wanted nothing to do with her on a date within a few days after breaking up with me. Is this the worst thing relationship wise I'll experience? I'm not finding out
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It's not the worst u will go thru trust me I have been thru some pretty crazy stuff my marriage of one year ended this weekend when he took off cause I told him we couldn't get a car or mortgage cause his x will put liens on it even though he paid her direct she never claimed it. He went back to her on Friday... I'm sorry but I'm the wrong person to say it gets better... My first husband of 13 years stalked me for 10vyears after our separation and divorce ... And the 2nd relationship in 23 years and I get kicked in the teeth lol...
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@cant-breathe man I wish I could think of something to help that situation my perspective is probably too naive to even help taking steps to help yourself and the family you trust would probably be the main priority at that point. the stalker situation brings up so much dread for what a person in the people I know's life is going to become, from what I know he's followed at least two people on the bus to their house and targets girls which sucks for my friend group
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Nothing to do hopefully my x husband stays away when I divorce my current husband I get the papers tomorrow... No help necessary I have been dealt much worse... I had to run with 2 kids from my x... At least I don't have to go to a shelter again...
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I've always been alone... I'm used to it... Thanks though that thoughtful of u to fell that u would like to help
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I don't have any family either... Just me and my 2 kids
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Sorry didn't mean to dump ti usually don't speak so openly to people... No one even knew half of what I have said except that friend I mentioned that backstabbed me
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@cant-breathe You're fine it seems like you were bottling it up for a while so it was probably a bit of a release
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Thanks... I'm sorry she seemed very cruel to break up with u the way she did... People can't seem to just say I'm not happy or there is a problem they just run to the next thing to help them forget what a crappy person they are...
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@cant-breathe yeah it's cool, someone brought up the fact that she may be a sociopath in which made some of her behavior click to why she acted the way she did sometimes but even if she is or not (not confirmed) I just figure that she's kind of a dick do I know if she's changed no but I have no interest in finding out.
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@K-qwerty fool me once shame on u... Fool me twice shame on me... She has already flipped the script on u once... Things like that r red flags...
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@cant-breathe yeah lol. the only reason I'm still even thinking about it so heavily is because my friend who is also my ex's friend brings her up sometimes for some reason. Which just makes me want to scream that her life isn't my business why are you telling me this??
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Sounds like rubbing salt in ur wounds
