@Kyle-S
Hey, first of all you are not a bad person. I was in a similar situation with my best friend and from my experience I think you should talk it out with her, tell her how you feel because maybe she feels the same but is afraid to tell you.
You can even tell her if you think the guy is bad for her or if he's changing her but if she won't listen to you you'll know that at least you tried to help her because you care for her.
What will you do if the person who ghosted you comes back to you ?
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@cjko Oh yes that has happened. Some people have instantly disappeared from my life almost without warning. Normally, I’ve found that it’s because they are dealing with personal difficulties or feelings that they don’t know how to deal with, so they ghost in a sense to figure things out for themselves. Then, sometimes (not always) they come around, but usually when you no longer even think about them. Interesting that things can work out that way.
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@giant-panda hmm yeah some people are like that. How are you going to handle it? Ignore what they did to you and act like it never happened to you ?
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@cjko unfortunately yes,,A relationship needs alot more than just love to keep it thriving.
That’s why some couples constantly breakup then get back together.
Because they love eachother but fail each other in other important relationship aspects.
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@giant-panda WHAT? you can still accept her for what she did to you ? like how about 5 years or 3 or how many years ... you still accept it?
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@cjko hehe, as I say, when (if is more the point) they came back then I would make like I didn’t notice, probably starting with, “hey there, how you doing? You been up to anything interesting?”
Depending who it was I might even say, “Anyways, sorry but I got stuff to do. Bye” and proudly walk away thinking, nice play me (pat on my back for me) -
@agent-peanut hahaha that's a good reaction tho :D
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@cjko . I had my own reasons even talk to him
i don’t think so! -
@giant-panda haha well, it is really up to you. :)
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@cjko at my age I learnt in this life it’s more often better to play it cool than appear angry or worse still needy ;)
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@agent-peanut hahha yeah. True. :)