i wanna be a store owner one day :)
A tale of woe and a thanks to the few
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@giant-panda that's okay man.. don't be hard on yourself.. You said you only had yourself. That's life, you can get over that bad experience happened in your life.. try to see the brighter side of it.. make friends, share smile, live every moment of your life :)
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@giant-panda said in A tale of woe and a thanks to the few:
@liliputian1 @cjko @Mr_Peanut @Mr-H I break down sometimes due to loneliness. There aren't any other alternatives so breaking down and remaining so is not an option. I tell myself that. Learning to be comfortable with your solitude is so important. Getting attached to people is a mistake. There should always be a healthy level of attachments and less expectations from anyone. Because you are nothing to anyone. Try to go on with that. People say a lot of nice things, promise nice things but at the end, all is naught.
Well Mr Wonderful Panda, you may of had suffering and betrayal from friends and maybe family, but you are talking to someone that is a master of his own time. I have spent many a time one my own, pondering my own thoughts, playing games ment to share as a solo thing.....
I was like it as a child and I have spent many years as an adult in the same situation..... I love my individuality and singular life. I cherish the life I have had past, present and future.
It does not bother me to continue the hermit life, as per your specification, It does not bother me to have friends, real or otherwise....But when you do come across people that give you a little of themselves, some of their time and effort... it is one of the greatest gift's you can receive... It's good and means plenty from those close to you, but it means far more and often more genuine when it comes from strangers that take you on face value... treat you like any human deserves to be.
So I am grateful for the chance to meet these people new, that from this thread alone (genuine or not) clearly supportive of each others thought's and feelings...
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@cjko Well said Ms .... very well said. :)
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@mr_peanut thank you
Kill them with kindness :)
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@cjko & @Mr_Peanut First of all, you might want to define what a ‘real friend’ is to you. When you do that, try to be such a person to other people.
I lacked ‘real friends’ at a time because I had a romanticized ideal of a friendship. Then, I had some emotional issues I thought a ‘real friendship’ would cure. How wrong I was!
Destroy Racism Be Like A Panda
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@giant-panda said in A tale of woe and a thanks to the few:
@cjko & @Mr_Peanut First of all, you might want to define what a ‘real friend’ is to you. When you do that, try to be such a person to other people.
I lacked ‘real friends’ at a time because I had a romanticized ideal of a friendship. Then, I had some emotional issues I thought a ‘real friendship’ would cure. How wrong I was!
I have read your post, and like the sun through the clouds ... all is clear now.
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@giant-panda you should never give other meaning to things that suppose to be simple :)
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@cjko said in A tale of woe and a thanks to the few:
@giant-panda you should never give other meaning to things that suppose to be simple :)
Don't complicate life.. it's okay.. we're all here for you. :)This girl @CJKO ...
wise beyond her years !!
FACT
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@mr_peanut hahha :D
thank you po :)
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@giant-panda Well, time to move on now. Forget about your past relationship.
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@mr_peanut so ta ta ta ta touch,heart warming..In your bio you mention me as your NieceNut, that makes you as my UncleNut..I Am proud Bela here to be instantly a member of the Nuts Family..Thank you so much,your words are wonderful and so are you..
P.S. Why my name mention beside @Liliputian1 ? Hey lyndz can you step aside your stepping my rapunzel hair..hehe..peace
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@bela said in A tale of woe and a thanks to the few:
@mr_peanut so ta ta ta ta touch,heart warming..In your bio you mention me as your NieceNut, that makes you as my UncleNut..I Am proud Bela here to be instantly a member of the Nuts Family..Thank you so much,your words are wonderful and so are you..
P.S. Why my name mention beside @Liliputian1 ? Hey lyndz can you step aside your stepping my rapunzel hair..hehe..peace
Awww, Nutneice .... bless your little cotton socks ... :)
hahaha ... sorry @Liliputian1 , but she right ... PLEASE STEP OFF A THE HAIR !
bahahahhahah
