@mvie_20 ๐คฃ i bet you perhaps not even asian, or may be not CHINESE ๐
I grew up with mixed culture, so gaslighting is not a new thing. Since i was kid, i was told to do this and that based on my parents expectations:
You are Asian not Bsian, how come you get B in this test?
You get only A? A is average, B is Based, you get CDEF? Go away from my house ๐คฃ
You know uncle xxx (name)? His son, he already takes his master degree to Netherland, what you do here? Sleeping like scumbag, you suck ๐
You never have someone, are you gay or you are weird?
All this time, you are 28 yo, you have no flings / lover / companion, aiyo mami and papi will be died one day, then you will be with who? ๐
I have damnly pathetic kid that cant be something in the future who will never give me grandkids
You are not even a manager yet in your 28? You are useless ๐
You know aunty xxx daughter? She already married a successful man from america, now i am wondering why you cant have american?
You know aunty xxx son? He already married a british woman who has bluish eyes, you? Succ, even having someone you cant have, leh ๐
Those only 9 examples that i have to deal everyday. Dont be like it is the end of the world btw.