Queen's life drama; help me sort this out!

[Stranger_Danger]

@cheesecake-lesb said in Queen's life drama; help me sort this out!:

@queenlope steal his brand new gaming PC, smash it with a fucking hammer, take pleasure in his horrified face, and walk away.

I'm in sheer awe at the badassery. :face_with_tears_of_joy: :face_with_tears_of_joy: :folded_hands_light_skin_tone: :folded_hands_light_skin_tone:

[QueenLope]

@stranger_danger Well,
I am grateful for the time and effort you put into going through your past similar experiences in order to help me sort out my dilemma.
Indeed, I regard with respect the choices that you made and are firmly proud of. That actually reminded me of Descartes and his Provisional Morality. The second maxim is to remain firm and decisive in our actions because we have a reason and every action we take and every move we make are thought out which means that, in this case, if this is the only guy I have ever invested my time in, there is a reason and I am planning on giving this relationship another shot.
Yes, I am an adult, an adult that was overwhelmed by her emotions not too long ago, /is highly ashamed/ , but it was worth it as I got what I needed, other perspectives.
Thank you for your wise words~~

[QueenLope]

@cheesecake-lesb
Lmao Not gonna lie, it is somehow tempting.

[KateBeauty]

Nice :smiling_face_with_heart-eyes:

[Zazzles]

@queenlope said in Queen's life drama; help me sort this out!:

I've been in my current relationship for around 1 year and I have built my current life around it so I am highly dependent on it.

^^ never be highly dependent on a person/relationship. Always leave something to yourself, be a bit selfish.

[Jacob55]

Were there any issues before the gaming PC? Did you truly realize how much he wanted to be a "Let's Play"er before?

Maybe he feels like you are not being supportive when you are. Maybe you feel like he has lost interest in you since he wants to build his career.

Without knowing more I can't say for sure your best course of action. Keep encouraging his dream, but check and see if he wants you to be part of it. You deserve to know if you are wasting your time with him.

I hope it works out!

[SUmof1]

@queenlope said in Queen's life drama; help me sort this out!:

has recently purchased a brand new gaming PC

Problem: A computer.
Solution: Unplug it (hide the wiring)
Extreme Solution: Disassemble, pour water into it, reassemble and nothing ever happened.

Relationship fixed.

[QueenLope]

@jacob55 Your reply has stood out a lot,
It is true that there is a backstory to it, I am the one who told him that he can get the computer and I told him that I will be supportive about this whole thing.

I have been helping him out with his professional career and I know that this dream is really important for him.

However, I did start to get frustrated has he was putting aside his biological needs (hygiene, food) as he was too obsessed with his new projects involving the computer.

So I asked him to do something about it but things gradually took the wrong path and he ended up telling me that this was really important for him and that he never had the opportunity to follow his dreams in his previous relationships (he is 6 years older than I am).

He also told me that he wanted to follow them now and thus, he won't be able to invest time in the relationship (as much as before), because he is balancing through his professional career, building up his body (gym) and following his dream (playing games and streaming them).

Moreover, he wants me to stay by his side and support him throughout everything.

Thank you for your valuable words, by the way, have a nice day!

[QueenLope]

@sumof1 Never saw it as simple as it actually was! ;)

[Cheesecake.Lesb]

@stranger_danger :-)

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