@sumof1 Never saw it as simple as it actually was!

@jacob55 Your reply has stood out a lot,
It is true that there is a backstory to it, I am the one who told him that he can get the computer and I told him that I will be supportive about this whole thing.

I have been helping him out with his professional career and I know that this dream is really important for him.

However, I did start to get frustrated has he was putting aside his biological needs (hygiene, food) as he was too obsessed with his new projects involving the computer.

So I asked him to do something about it but things gradually took the wrong path and he ended up telling me that this was really important for him and that he never had the opportunity to follow his dreams in his previous relationships (he is 6 years older than I am).

He also told me that he wanted to follow them now and thus, he won't be able to invest time in the relationship (as much as before), because he is balancing through his professional career, building up his body (gym) and following his dream (playing games and streaming them).

Moreover, he wants me to stay by his side and support him throughout everything.

Thank you for your valuable words, by the way, have a nice day!

@cheesecake-lesb
Lmao Not gonna lie, it is somehow tempting.

@stranger_danger Well,
I am grateful for the time and effort you put into going through your past similar experiences in order to help me sort out my dilemma.
Indeed, I regard with respect the choices that you made and are firmly proud of. That actually reminded me of Descartes and his Provisional Morality. The second maxim is to remain firm and decisive in our actions because we have a reason and every action we take and every move we make are thought out which means that, in this case, if this is the only guy I have ever invested my time in, there is a reason and I am planning on giving this relationship another shot.
Yes, I am an adult, an adult that was overwhelmed by her emotions not too long ago, /is highly ashamed/ , but it was worth it as I got what I needed, other perspectives.
Thank you for your wise words~~

@evan-elderson Ok! Thank you for the advice!

Hi guys,

If any of you want to share your opinion on this matter, I would be greatful~
I've been in my current relationship for around 1 year and I have built my current life around it so I am highly dependent on it.
Let's make this simple, my boyfriend is a performance junkie and has recently purchased a brand new gaming PC and ever since he bought it we have been fighting repetitively.
He just now told me that he will no longer be able to be as present in my life as he used to be because he wants to follow his dream.
That makes me feel unsafe and unsure of what to do.
I feel like I lost a part of myself and I am scared to look forward.

I was thinking you guys could help me out with some wise words~~

@stranger_danger I was hoping to get your real age but I guess that won't be happening!

@willoww
Books can be a nice way to forget the current situation and lessen the pain, if you're not into books you can try out movies.
Don't forget that it is fine to not feel ok, cry if you need to, take things as slow as needed, don't feel pressured to be alright.
I also advice meditation.
Good luck moving on.

@stranger_danger
I heard that you were assisting at Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip's marriage on 1940s, is it true?

I would say you are in your late 40s from that picture of yourself.