Posts made by QueenLope

@sumof1 Never saw it as simple as it actually was! ;)

@jacob55 Your reply has stood out a lot,
It is true that there is a backstory to it, I am the one who told him that he can get the computer and I told him that I will be supportive about this whole thing.

I have been helping him out with his professional career and I know that this dream is really important for him.

However, I did start to get frustrated has he was putting aside his biological needs (hygiene, food) as he was too obsessed with his new projects involving the computer.

So I asked him to do something about it but things gradually took the wrong path and he ended up telling me that this was really important for him and that he never had the opportunity to follow his dreams in his previous relationships (he is 6 years older than I am).

He also told me that he wanted to follow them now and thus, he won't be able to invest time in the relationship (as much as before), because he is balancing through his professional career, building up his body (gym) and following his dream (playing games and streaming them).

Moreover, he wants me to stay by his side and support him throughout everything.

Thank you for your valuable words, by the way, have a nice day!

@cheesecake-lesb
Lmao Not gonna lie, it is somehow tempting.

@stranger_danger Well,
I am grateful for the time and effort you put into going through your past similar experiences in order to help me sort out my dilemma.
Indeed, I regard with respect the choices that you made and are firmly proud of. That actually reminded me of Descartes and his Provisional Morality. The second maxim is to remain firm and decisive in our actions because we have a reason and every action we take and every move we make are thought out which means that, in this case, if this is the only guy I have ever invested my time in, there is a reason and I am planning on giving this relationship another shot.
Yes, I am an adult, an adult that was overwhelmed by her emotions not too long ago, /is highly ashamed/ , but it was worth it as I got what I needed, other perspectives.
Thank you for your wise words~~

@evan-elderson Ok! Thank you for the advice!

Hi guys,

If any of you want to share your opinion on this matter, I would be greatful~
I've been in my current relationship for around 1 year and I have built my current life around it so I am highly dependent on it.
Let's make this simple, my boyfriend is a performance junkie and has recently purchased a brand new gaming PC and ever since he bought it we have been fighting repetitively.
He just now told me that he will no longer be able to be as present in my life as he used to be because he wants to follow his dream.
That makes me feel unsafe and unsure of what to do.
I feel like I lost a part of myself and I am scared to look forward.

I was thinking you guys could help me out with some wise words~~

@stranger_danger I was hoping to get your real age but I guess that won't be happening!

@willoww
Books can be a nice way to forget the current situation and lessen the pain, if you're not into books you can try out movies.
Don't forget that it is fine to not feel ok, cry if you need to, take things as slow as needed, don't feel pressured to be alright.
I also advice meditation.
Good luck moving on.

@stranger_danger
I heard that you were assisting at Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip's marriage on 1940s, is it true? ;)

I would say you are in your late 40s from that picture of yourself.

@stranger_danger
Oh well, I am sure you will come around with time.
There is no way you can get better around here :P

@stranger_danger Would you rather have us pee in our pants?

I will come under these conditions:

• Firstly, you must buy flight tickets and book an hotel room for me and another girl (a week to be able to visit around).
• Keep things PG.
• Let us take quick breaks during the movie if needed.
• Buy each one of us dinner after the movie ( We like Asian food)

Now, I know, I am asking for a lot but here is why it's worth it:

• We will shed tears with you at any time that you feel sad during the movie in order to boost your manliness.
• We will let you sob on our shoulder if needed.
• We will dress up well and will make sure to be pretty.
• We will make sure that you enjoy our company.

Thus, I defo think this deal is worth it 100%.
You should reaaaally take it!

@thestrangest "I find it extremely aggravating when people realise that the first definition they had of god was too strict therefore too easy to criticise and that's why they string together a bunch of words like "energy", "frequency", "collective consciousness" "
About this, you are acutally going against a school of thought. A school of thought that I believe in and just like jesus or any other Gods, at the end of the day, they are just beliefs.
I don't think there is any point on me trying to argue about the fact that my beliefs are the right ones or the ones that everyone should follow.
The reason why I believe God is "energy" or just an "higher consiousness" are simple.
I believe in a creator but I do not believe in the holly books and all the history and the beliefs that are taught around which is why I decided to start everything on my own and begin meditation.
As a result, I did feel a flow or a connection that went through the bounderies which is why I define it as the core and I decided to interpret that this energy that flows through everything is God as God is everywhere.
I can understand why you would think that "energy" has no link to the holly science but this is how I made the link between the sun and my beliefs:
The Sun is God and the Sun is a Major source of energy.
Either way, would you mind giving your definition of energy as you said people get confused when you show them energy itself?

Nice video by the way but if you want to get in debt into the subject I would highly suggest this one:

English is not one of my first languages so I might be making mistakes that I am not aware of, feel free to correct me if you feel the need to do so.

@yash1234 I saw the topics that you post in and concluded that we shouldn't be talking, after all

What's the last K drama that you have watched and loved?

There are two guys fighting over me and the ugly one is winnging

Have you ever studied religious science?
It is based on the fact that God (if you want, Jesus) is the sun.
If you take it from that perspective, god might not be seen as a being but rather as a force.
You could describe it as a higher frequency with no embodiment.
If you take it that way, God might not have been created has always been present in the core of the universe.

@saam-k Sure but I don't want anything sexual.