Absolutely not, and honestly if his girlfriend could read the messages she should have been able to see that it was all him. You've done nothing wrong wrong and are the victim of a cheat and a liar; I'm sorry you've been through this and hope the girlfriend sees sense soon.
Relationships v/s Flings
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Would you rather be in a serious relationship or just flings?
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@sakshyyy_123 hey relationship
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Would love to hear the reasoning for your answers as well.
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@sakshyyy_123 well its depend on what u r looking for and wts ur criteria for relationship ; different ppl have different approach ...
in flings (which some ppl call as time pass too ) .. uk u guys have no future u are together for sometime (mostly when u feel needy or lonely) it needs less compromises ... while in a serious relationship u need time , had to compromise , u can't leave in btw , u promised for the togetherness and have to fulfill that promise .. u will face more ups and downs in serious relationship but u can quit anytime in fling...
when i was younger i always thought why ppl choose fling .. they date some for who they don't have feelings for .. personally i prefer a serious relationship with i person i like i can understand i feel the bond ...plus there is no ideal type in serious relationship unlike fling cuz in serious relationship feelings and bond are much more imp than materialistic things..
i never had been in a relationship but acc to me to have a serious relationship u must understand the other person and their needs and respect choices .. start it with a good friendship and learn about them first .. it will take a lot of time .. but it will help u to learn a lot about relationship...
but at last i just wanna say that if its seriou or fling every type of relationship depends on both parties ... but in online world u will find 90% flings
( i like ur questions a lot :) .. ur questions helped me to explain my views .. i have a lot more to say but idk how to frame it .. ) -
Serious relationship.
In a nutshell, I'm 43 and haven't the time or energy to fritter away on connections that don't last. A healthy, positive relationship with someone I can grow old with sounds very appealing after what I've been through previously.
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@Ruth you can just be yourself and speak your heart out.
