@Ashley546 well good luck on dating lmao
Tips on dating an introvert?
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I am dating an extreme introvert and I am not sure how. We have been doing fine but i can see him drifting way and wanting more and more space... any tips on how to date an introvert?
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@lil_shouboutai About the introverts, they like to take a relationship at their own pace and meet or talk when they feel comfortable. They won't come forward or initiate anything, so if you want to do something with them, go ahead and ask. Just because they haven't told you about something yet doesn't mean they weren't going to, or didn't want to.
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@lil_shouboutai said in Tips on dating an introvert?:
I am dating an extreme introvert and I am not sure how. We have been doing fine but i can see him drifting way and wanting more and more space... any tips on how to date an introvert?
If you both have been doing fine then just be straightforward to him or her about everything. They don't say what they want but they keep hoping inside that they will get love or affection . If you understand them then whatever good thing you will try to do for them will surely make them beleive you more and more and then they will get very close to you.
I am an introvert and a sensitive guy but not an adult so I hope what I said might work for you . -
@Ash Thank you! That does help:blush:
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@kaia_ Thank you for your advice! It's just getting hard cause I am not use to this. Giving someone days, weeks, months, time without seeing them or hearing from them. I am trying to respect their wish but I want to send a text here or there just so they know I am there for them... but I don't want to bother them.
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@lil_shouboutai said in Tips on dating an introvert?:
@Ash Thank you! That does help:blush:
Anytime ready to help.
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im an introvert and one thing is you should be comfeting
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I am giving him the time he wants but I want to send him a message, just to let him know i am here for him, to know he was me to rely on but I don't want to disrespect his wishes... I have never dated an introvert and i want him to know that I am trying and want to understand but at the same time... I want him to understand where I am coming from and this is hard for me.
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@lil_shouboutai this seems to be a bit complex , if it's okay with you then we can talk about this in dms
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@lil_shouboutai Constant texting is a major bummer for introverts. Although they like to feel safe and valued, they only want you to text them when you have something to say, not just "how are you?"
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@kaia_ you understand introverts so nicely >_>
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@Ash There you have it, my thoughts on my introverted life!
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@kaia_ I am a big introvert to be honest but I share a small percentage of all my thoughts when I meet some gentle real people I like.
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@Ash Good on you.
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@Ash yes, that's totally fine. Thank you!
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@lil_shouboutai said in Tips on dating an introvert?:
@Ash yes, that's totally fine. Thank you!
You can dm me.right mow
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@kaia_ Thank you so much for the advice. That is a big help to know more and not be so overwhelming.
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@lil_shouboutai said in Tips on dating an introvert?:
I am giving him the time he wants but I want to send him a message, just to let him know i am here for him, to know he was me to rely on but I don't want to disrespect his wishes... I have never dated an introvert and i want him to know that I am trying and want to understand but at the same time... I want him to understand where I am coming from and this is hard for me.
A random "thinking of you" message is always nice to get but definitely not all the time as it can be seen as being pushy. Maybe sending a picture or cute gif or something is always nice too. If you have told him before you are there for him and that this situation is new to you... then he knows. I do not recommend reminding him of that. Just let him know you are thinking of him from time to time if its been awhile since you last spoke.
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@Janet thank you for the idea of a cute gif... I did that and it worked! it was a single reply but at least it was reply and happy to hear from them!
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@lil_shouboutai at this point introverts are like for say a plant they need time to grow and get used to there surroundings
They may take long to reply or even talk to you because they aren't like people who can say
YOU WANNA HANG OUT AND GO TO PARTYS
They tend to drift and stay dormit like a plant that hates crowdy and filled up places they take time to nurture and care and even longer to reply how they fell
In all out honesty to those who wait I'll get what they want and bask in success of there work
The saying here is care and nurture him/her and sooner or later they'll get used to you
(S-teir info from introvert)