What are you scared of?

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@Imduck hey you know you are a nice guy! Have faith in yourself that you ain't losing anyone. Sometimes people leave us even if they know we wish them to be beside us. If such is the case, you cannot change their minds because they've other priorities in life — you cannot force them to be in your life. I have seen people changing very quickly over time and I think they somehow lack fidelity and consistency of their innate principles. Maybe they are confused as to what they want in life and what they do not. The more you will try to keep them in your life, the faster they're going to under-rate your loyalty for them. It is also natural sometimes, especially for people of the opposite gender, to doubt your loyalty because they're likely to wrongly judge you in case your intentions are not clear. So losing people should become natural in our lives but for that we shouldn't stop caring less about them or loving them lesser than we can. The desire to keep someone in our lives is not love. Love is just a feeling that asks us to be benevolent both towards ourselves and to others. If you suddenly notice an unknown child in danger, you'll perhaps try to save him/ her. At that point of time, you will not have the thought of losing the child or keeping it in your life. God has loved us and so we should love others. If they do not wish to be beside you, it's their personal choice. And remember, do not fall in love with someone on TWS. We are all strangers here to support each other. Your desire to possess someone may lead them to create another account and stop using the one through which you've known them!

[Johannes Julians]

@xoyee Ngl, that is a lovely quote! I am actually afraid of a number of things, tbh. Like losing friends I made, getting separated from those I love and care about, and stuff like not getting liked and also getting criticised. A lot of people I have met here however, provided me enough hope and respect to continue my life and thought processes normally, so a big shout-out to them. I am afraid of losing friends because I just might be a little too open to them (never sexually) and because I just might be a little too talkative and naive in my sentences, you know?

[Imduck]

@anonymous92 Yeah... Lol ur words r like the drops of rain from heaven yk #bad analogy . What I mean is they r true af... Forcing someone.. Lol nah not me. If anyone's gonna leave.. N says so I'll happily bid him farewell.. My Fatal flaw lies deep within.. Wrapped in all sorts of emotions. I don't usually express them aloud or even trust everyone to respect them.

For the child or maybe a bunch of such children I might just step up n help them to the extreme. U could call that caring, or love or just doing my social deeds.. N that's one of the many things I wish to be a part of in this small life..

Lol as u hv said that abt opposite genders.. Well yeah it's the truth in the most raw means.. But maybe somewhere along the line it's trust that ppl don't usually have on others.. N that's the biggest difference between us humans n dogs for instance (maybe??) lol we don't trust easily n well they in spite of the inhuman acts starts trusting the very next person who comes to them.... Did u ever wonder why .
Lol but I really appreciate u taking all that time to write to a duck lol..xDD

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@Imduck Ha Ha Ha... Ducks are cute yk! And I feel so fortunate to have a duck who writes to me on TWS!! LOL! But do you know what's the weirdest thing I have experienced on TWS...?? Too many people keep Lol-ing too many times and even when they're actually frowning!! Their lols are so loud that I can almost hear them all from distant countries! LOL!

[Imduck]

@anonymous92 Lol.. It's kinda a habit I grew here yk.. Ppl don't seem to get the real content of conversation n. Easily get offended... The lolz r just ways used to.. Yk release the tension between the words. N lol.. Ducks r cute.. N innocent n trusts all.. N a lot other stuff ppl usually look for in friends.. Soo why not just be ducks for a while n get the world to.. Lol for every other silly reason

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@xoyee
My face
I have baby face even if i am 26

[xoyee]

@Johannes-Julians hey there, I understand you well, however, you don't have to be scared ok.
I have learnt over time to express myself how ever I want to either in the open or not without taking people's judgment about me so personal, the truth is that people will always talk good or bad about so try not to think of what people will say, instead build your confidence in expressing yourself without feeling ashamed or apologetic about it. Even when you think you're not making sense say it with confidence, sooner or later your non-sense will begin to make sense to people.
You need to also start accepting being criticized, it will help you learn and know more, there's no success without failure",
You passing through criticism and stuffs like that is like passing a sword through fire, when it's done the sword becomes sharper and shines brighter...that's how you shine when you're able to successfully pass through challenges of any kind.

[Johannes Julians]

@xoyee Thank you! I really appreciate you trying to help!! I shall surely work on my inner confidence and stuff that might make me a more braver guy..

[xoyee]

@Corpse hahahahaha so do I, my baby face is hereditary and I'm not scared or apologetic about it, infact I love it lol...i think you should too, it makes people unable to guess your age...

[xoyee]

@Johannes-Julians sounds good