What to do when your ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”.....??

  • When our heart gets broken by someone we love its hard to get it as it was.......
    What we should do to heal or broken heart ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”...

  • A broken heart can never be healed... U can only take lessons from it and try to move on.

  • But i think that a broken heart can be healed if other person try to be like a medicine โ˜บ๏ธ

  • I can assure you that self medication dose not work in the long term

  • @Mickeyyyyy Maybe... but I think the pain becomes a bit easier to bear when the other person try to be like a medicine.
    Just my opinion... What u say is true too...

  • I eat chocochip ice cream !! Lot of it

  • @Mickeyyyyy said in What to do when your ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”.....??:

    But i think that a broken heart can be healed if other person try to be like a medicine โ˜บ๏ธ

    It's not up to another person to heal your broken heart. As you said prior to this you don't think that it heals turn extent you are correct however it does heal it is not the same as before

    Any place there is a cut or a break it heals but it leaves a scar and a callus making it harder to break again.
    In my case I refuse to love less I don't want to take away from any future relationship because of the wrong in the past relationship.
    I have to seriously self-examine my actions and I always try to make sure that any failure is not because of a lack on my doing.
    I refuse to love giving less than 100%. If I did it would not be fair to the person that I love. I don't necessarily expect that in return but I expect that of myself. If everyone were loved that way relationships would not fail unless incompatibility solely is the reason.
    Communication and honesty are must haves. In order for any relationship to work you have to have trust. Trust must be built over time. Trust can only be built with honesty and communications.
    No matter how much attraction you might have without trust the relationship cannot grow.
    You have to trust. You cannot violate the other person's trust. Remain true to your word be honest both with yourself and to your lover. Even if that means letting go. Remain honest remain faithful stay true to your heart and do no wrong to your lover.

  • @wet-teri ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ Thank you so much... I learnt a lot from you today.
    I will always try to give my best in everything and be true to myself and everyone.
    You are a really wise person๐Ÿ˜Š

  • @whiterose4001
    I appreciate the compliment White Rose but I am just another individual who has had their heart broken many times although I have self exam and lots of things and found the most common failures in my relationships have resulted from dishonesty and either miscommunication or a lack of communication. You need to express your needs and wants otherwise they may go unfulfilled leaving you wanting and causing you to look elsewhere for the fulfillment of said things. Quite possibly if your lover knew that was what you wanted they would have been more than happy to provide those to you. Such has been my case in my experiences. It is very sad to see a good loving relationship ruined because you or the other person we're unwilling to express their desires

  • It would be better for you to lose the love and relationship because the other person or unwilling to give you what you wanted rather than lose it because you did not ask for what you wanted if that makes any sense. If they are unwilling to give it the relationship would have failed anyways if you seek it elsewhere because you are not getting it then it would be your fault for the relationship failing.
    If you ask for it and receive it pleasing both you and your partner then a relationship may move forward more trust is built at the same time dust making it a stronger and better relationship.

  • When opportunity knocks on your door generally it knocks once very quietly not only do you have to hear it you have to open the door faithfully because there is no one behind the peephole.
    You cannot just stand there at the door either you need to welcome them in free openly and accepting everything at face value

  • @Mickeyyyyy i am gonna give more of a materialistic view on this problem. If they have done something terrible to you despite knowing the fact that it will hurt your sentiments then they don't deserve the love you accounted them for. And if they want to make amends give them a chance but they are gonna have to start from scratch to get to a point where they regain your trust. And if they fail to acknowledge what wrong they have done then you have got no business with them. Just defy their existence in your life and learn from your mistakes and analyze where you failed to make a correct judgement about that person.

    I think most of you are going to disagree, but thats how i deal with people being an introvert

  • If my heart breaks after watching an anime. I listen a lot of sad songs. And after a few days of heavy heart and sick stomach I tell myself how Awesome I am AND I'M BACK AND BETTER!

  • @Yuuu True๐Ÿ˜‚

  • @whiterose4001
    Do you never sleep? ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • @wet-teri I do, I woke up few hours ago

  • @whiterose4001
    Sleep is elusive for me tonight. I met someone who I care about today but now I am facing a moral delemna. Looking for an answer in a gray area that doesn't really exist because moral is white and amoral is black. They don't mix so there is no gray

  • I don't really have a problem being amoral in this particular area especially if all goes well, however if the proverbial excrement starts flying and hearts get broken in the process I would have a problem especially being the cause of the broken hearts