Hello Mark, I think it’s a brave thing to do to write a post in here about your very personal vulnerabilities. And it seems that you don’t want to give up on life if you want some help and accept help from others. Stay close to the small things you appreciate in life instead of keep focusing on the negative things. I know it seems tough and it is. But every small little step to the right direction, that counts…
Is there anything that you both Love & hate???
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I have a few things concerning this... but I'm curious as to others and what they think...
This was spawned from reading a reply that @Mr-H posted moments ago...For me ... one of the biggies is ...
- I love being single, but I hate being alone. (I cope with the loneliness reasonably well i think)
- I love the fact I am a pretty good dj, but I hate the fact I have never wanted to progress that skill. (I just enjoy entertaining)
- I love that my children have grown up, but I hate the fact that they have. (only a parent would understand that one lol)
So, anyone with me? or am I just an old fart? hahahaha
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@mr-peanut
Love being a lonewolf. Hate being alone all the time. This is due to my way of isolating my whole world into the person I am romantically involved when she is gone a huge void is left and I can't find ways to fill it.
I love how perfectionist and hard working I am but hate that I am never satisfied with the progress and results I get.
And finally... love how much I managed to love me but hate how much I still hate myself.. If that makes sense.
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@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-peanut
Love being a lonewolf. Hate being alone all the time. This is due to my way of isolating my whole world into the person I am romantically involved when she is gone a huge void is left and I can't find ways to fill it.
I love how perfectionist and hard working I am but hate that I am never satisfied with the progress and results I get.
And finally... love how much I managed to love me but hate how much I still hate myself.. If that makes sense.
Your first point , I get 100%
Your second point to , as a typical Virgo, I fully understand that one ... it's like striving for the best of the best, but never thinking you get there despite what others might say (self criticism can be a twat)
and your final point I can't say much of... I've never been keen on me lol
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@Mr-Peanut
Bela's love-hate thoughts:- Love this so called "alonetime", hate being alone most of the time.
- I love the way you can make me smile, but at times hate how you made me frown.
- I love food stuffling my belly, but hate that I cant diet.
- I love payday, but hate payments.
- I love to shoot, but hate when i miss my target
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@bela
Your first one I think is very common. Maybe it's human nature to like the "alone time" but to dislike being alone most of the time.
hehe , I didn't realise I made you smile or frown :O glad/sorry about that.
Mmmmmm food ....
Payday is always great, until most of it goes on the bills that keep us going.
I can't say much for shooting since I never really had the opportunity.
Thanks for your answers Nutniece.
ps. surprised a Bond girl ever misses her target :P . -
@mr-peanut Procastination. Period.
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@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
huge void is left and I can't find ways to fill it
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And if you don't like both the options
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@obviouslylucifer said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
Really like this idea, will look into it and find out more about dogs 🕵
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@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
Really like this idea, will look into it and find out more about dogs
While getting a DOG will make @WtfJudith happy...
It might tick off @wildwallflower as you considered a Dog and not a Cat...
it is a pickle..
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@obviouslylucifer said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
Really like this idea, will look into it and find out more about dogs
While getting a DOG will make @WtfJudith happy...
It might tick off @wildwallflower as you considered a Dog and not a Cat...
it is a pickle..
I can get both a dog and a cat, that way, i'll make both @WtfJudith and @wildwallflower happy!
I could also get...
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it's not loneliness it's just boredom
do you ever feel lonely when you are working, I guess not
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@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@obviouslylucifer said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
Really like this idea, will look into it and find out more about dogs
While getting a DOG will make @WtfJudith happy...
It might tick off @wildwallflower as you considered a Dog and not a Cat...
it is a pickle..
I can get both a dog and a cat, that way, i'll make both @WtfJudith and @wildwallflower happy!
I could also get...
bitch nah, how dare you 😱
DOGS > Cats
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@wtfjudith said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@obviouslylucifer said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
Really like this idea, will look into it and find out more about dogs
While getting a DOG will make @WtfJudith happy...
It might tick off @wildwallflower as you considered a Dog and not a Cat...
it is a pickle..
I can get both a dog and a cat, that way, i'll make both @WtfJudith and @wildwallflower happy!
I could also get...
bitch nah, how dare you 😱
DOGS > Cats
I'll get both a dog and a cat, that way everyone can be happy! okay? :D
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@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@wtfjudith said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@obviouslylucifer said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
@mr-h said in Is there anything that you both Love & hate???:
Really like this idea, will look into it and find out more about dogs
While getting a DOG will make @WtfJudith happy...
It might tick off @wildwallflower as you considered a Dog and not a Cat...
it is a pickle..
I can get both a dog and a cat, that way, i'll make both @WtfJudith and @wildwallflower happy!
I could also get...
bitch nah, how dare you 😱
DOGS > Cats
I'll get both a dog and a cat, that way everyone can be happy! okay? :D
But that means you'll have to share your time, love and affection for both of them and dogs deserve it all XD
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But i am like naruto, I can do Kage Bunshin no Jutsu
Not only i can be with both my dog and my cat that I can be with both you and @wildwallflower :smirk:
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@mr-h :baby: :triumph: :triumph: :triumph: M not sharing!! Look what she said :sob:
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That's why I am making a clone of myself :smirk:
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@mr-h No cloning either!! Cats deserve as much as Dogs!! I never discriminate!! And those who do :triumph: GET NOTHING!!!!
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You said it was ok to have 3 sail ships. If I you jealous, it won't work :smirk:
Trust in my clone potential and thing of the unlimited possibilities! :joy: