How do you deal with rude people?

[wildwallflower]

How do you deal with people who are rude to you without losing temper?

[Brujo]

almost impossible to not lose your temper
;-)

[chillax]

@wildwallflower I dont,

[wildwallflower]

@brujo same with me :(

[wildwallflower]

@chillax avoid them altogether?

[chillax]

@wildwallflower if people are rude I dont deal with them lol, and if I do I get annoyed very fast

[wildwallflower]

@chillax haha! I do get annoyed real quick too. That's what m tryin to work on

[Green Archer]

@wildwallflower ostracism basically ignore, however be warned maybe the rude person has something important to say. Don't dismiss everything someone says to you even if it might feel bad, it may be a legitimate criticism and you only perceive it as rude.

The truth always is perceived as rude and unkind.

[wildwallflower]

@green-archer i agree! I dont mind beig criticized, if it really makes sense. But the rudeness in the picture here is being bad to people for no reason. We've all experienced such people in our life, in workplaces or colleges or schools, even social media platforms. On social media however, you get an option of blocking them but what about in real life?

[Green Archer]

@wildwallflower Avoiding them I would say, cut off all communication. :)

[99mBD]

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[DayShifter]

@wildwallflower said in How do you deal with rude people?:

How do you deal with people who are rude to you without losing temper?

:thinking_face:

Well, personally I find it depends on the person. If it's someone new to you then I tend to go with slight humour with some sharp wit. This gives a quick chance to gage them and how they take that. (I kinda mean sarcasm, the but level of would depend on if they get it or not). I find that rather than getting annoyed with them so they get the reaction that they might be looking for the cheeky route leaves them something to think about (even if they don't seem to .... it's will sink in and cause them to think!)

If it's someone you know then the same method really applies, the difference being that you can hit them harder and quicker with the wit.

The whole point of this is to leave them something that they might not realise, but when they do they work out the face that they pissed you off without you having the need to waste the energy to actually tell them ;)

Book Of Peanut - Sarcasm , Chapter 5

[wildwallflower]

@green-archer it might help in some cases ✌

[wildwallflower]

@99mbd didn't get you buddy, care to elaborate?

[wildwallflower]

@mr-peanut haha good one Mr.P! I wish i was witty but I'm the dumb 😂! Where can i get this Book of Peanut? Maybe i can learn from it. 😛

[DayShifter]

@wildwallflower said in How do you deal with rude people?:

@mr-peanut haha good one Mr.P! I wish i was witty but I'm the dumb 😂! Where can i get this Book of Peanut? Maybe i can learn from it. 😛

We shall chat later and if your lucky I shall forward you a copy ;)

[wildwallflower]

@mr-peanut hehe! That would be great, thanks

[Luv2Lik]

I dunno cos Im usually the rude one .... hahahahaha

[Luv2Lik]

my friends daughter with learning difficulties has it all worked out ... she says I poke em in the eyeball ..... hahahahah I love ya Cynthia xxx

[JessicaGrant]

I deal with them the most logic way ,
spam them with bad memes and shit talk them :3