I cheated on her. Should I tell her?

[imnervous30]

I am engaged to my Thai woman for a year now and there’s really nothing I could criticize about her. She is very loyal, loving and caring--I couldn’t ask for more. However, temptations are always there waiting for someone to devour. The sad thing is I gave in. I agreed to do sensual things with my new neighbor who’s so seductive and pretty. Fortunately, I was conscience-stricken and I promised to myself that I wouldn’t cheat again. I exerted a lot of efforts to my fiance in order to lessen the guilt that’s haunting me. Now, should I tell her about what I’ve done to put my heart at peace or should I just remain silent? I can’t afford to lose her. Please help me on this. Thanks!

[imnervous30]

Dude, I really need your serious advice about this problem of mine if you wear me what you can do?

[inseekayumi31]

@imnervous30 Oh man, that's messed up. I really don't understand why people cheat. Just like you said, you can't afford to lose her but why are you committing that kind of mistake? I don't know man but they said, "You can't judge the person or the entire relationship over one mistake." I somehow believe on that maybe she is too. So yeah, tell her the truth and give her a strong assurance that you won't do it again.

[Abru Khan]

@imnervous30 sure

[vahid 0]

@imnervous30 dont say anything to her if she is happy now--but try to give all ur heart to her and dont cheat again

[hurleyking]

@imnervous30 If it happened just once, I think there's no need to tell her because I'm sure she will break up with you. Just be sure that you won't do it anymore because if you do, it means you don't love her . Cheating is a choice and not an accident.

[farmboykregg]

@vahid-0 said in I cheated on her. Should I tell her?:

@imnervous30 dont say anything to her if she is happy now--but try no you don't tell to give all ur heart to her and docheat again. No don't tell her it's ok if you get aroused just looking ur just getting off it's fine

[kittypie]

you should tell her everything and promise her you dont do it again. dont lie to her. love her with all your heart.

[MeAgain]

Tell her. If she finds out you cheated and lied about it...

[Γαητα]

@imnervous30 you should die for doing that tbh lmao

[Bela Hella]

@imnervous30: its either you slap her with the truth,or embrace her with a lie..then suffer the consequences..

[imnervous30]

@inseekayumi31 Thanks for your advice. I need a lot of courage.

[imnervous30]

@vahid-0 Yes,,, I will never cheat again to her. I am conscience-stricken.

[imnervous30]

@hurleyking Thanks for this. I will put this in mind.

[imnervous30]

@kittypie Yes, I will. Thanks!

[imnervous30]

@bela Thanks for your insights.

[Bela Hella]

@imnervous30 welcome,hope for the best..

[[[global:former-user]]]

@imnervous30 It's a tough decision, to be sure. My opinion is you should tell her. If you choose to lie and hide the truth, it is almost certain that at some point she will find out somehow, and it's going to be much harder then to explain your actions then.
Try and explain to her why you did, and of course promise never to do it again. If she truly loves you, she will understand. You will have to win her trust again, and that is not going to be easy, but if you love her, you will endure it.

[Sardar Saad]

@vassiad listen

[[[global:former-user]]]

@sardar-saad What?