Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Can we ever really prevent the past from repeating itself?
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@ᑕᖇiᗰᔕ-ᑎ really I'm not sure. The earth is round you know🙂
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Ovcos, coz for I believe past is part of lessons we get in lyf. If at all smething happened, be it good or bad u can avoid
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I don't know I mean our past is part of us, how we are and who we became as the person of today.
If we could, preventing our certain past events from happening it might it effect the future later on and it can be better or worse but doesn't it feel like cheating? In my opinion it doesn't feel right to prevent our past from happening no matter how much we hate it. Our past is like a life lessons to us.
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In what way? If we mean repeating the exact mistakes, like starting another Holocaust or something, then yes. If we mean vaguely like adopting similar attitudes or something more abstract from those time then I guess not.
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@alicia-0 said in Can we ever really prevent the past from repeating itself?:
Ovcos, coz for I believe past is part of lessons we get in lyf. If at all smething happened, be it good or bad u can avoid
Based on your say, should you get hurt because you loved and trusted people, how will you avoid it next time?