@Mabela i have a Henry hoover and always find myself talking to it as if it's a dog. If I've finished hoovering one part of the room and I'm moving to another it's "right, come on Henry, let's go". Purely because the fucking thing has eyes and a smile stuck on it 😊
@spaceboy a very fair point and love the response, just wish more people on line would just take the time to express their views. Points of view no matter who or where they are coming from as long as it is honest and respectful is more of what it is needed in our online world. thank you
Today I had an idea I thought I should post here. I think it is really important that we learn to communicate who we really are, or maybe who we are and how we feel and see things in this very moment instead of just trying to please others. Because beeing honest is the only way in which others can like us – because otherwise they'll just like some persona we created and we'll continue to be alone.
Of equal importance is to learn to give others the opportunity to communicate their real self to us. This means that we learn to really listen – which is more than just hearing what the otherone says of course. Seems just as hard to me as the first thing though.
PS: questions like yours create such opportunities, keep up the good ideas!
@thegoddess Read the whole thing. If only there were a way to cherry-pick who you interact with here! Wherever you go there will be people pulling you in directions you don't want to go in. Just make sure to learn what you can from the errors along the way, and nothing will be a total loss!