I'll be your friend if you need me
We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
-
Honestly though I have not been making friends. People are complicated. I mean they are fickle. These days everyone wants you to agree with them 100%. I am my own person so I don't always agree with everyone. Friendship should be about acceptance of differences not over powering thought.
-
@Nosnikda-Life-Poet Your so right, but from my point of few, if you have a friend that wants or expects you to be 100% in synch with them then they are fake. most of the time.
-
That is exactly what I am saying @Rissa_TheBest. I don't think anyone can agree with you 100% of the time. Not family, not people you are in relationship with. Heck sometimes you don't even agree with self. lol
-
Lol I guess it depends on the person @Nosnikda-Life-Poet
-
Well, that is the beauty of humanity. You are able to change your mind. Think about it @Rissa_TheBest have you changed how you felt about somethings from a year ago. If so, you disagreed with yourself. Life changes and as it changes as people we should be able to make our decisions on where we stand with it. With that many times we lose friends. But if they were friends they should at least explain what changed their mind about the friendship
-
Thats deep and I agree with everything single word, but I'm afraid if I go on, that this will last forever, lol
-
What do you mean @Rissa_TheBest . What will last forever?
-
I mean I agree with everything, but if I say another thing then this conversation will never end, lol
-
The question is, do you want it to end. I have not made friends in a while, but I would be open to your friendship.
-
Really? :) I would to, and no i don't want the conversation to end but like all conversations, it will have to eventually.
-
Well, the question is will it end or will it evolve... Many people can't evolve with a conversation because they are one dimensional.... But you are authentic and well rounded. I believe we could travel the waves of intuitive conversation on many levels.
-
Well I agree, and thank you btw, So you think our conversation can carry on? Well I will be waiting to see were our conversation leads, probably extraordinary.
-
So here is a start... does age have a bearing on friendship?
-
@Nosnikda-Life-Poet No age doesn't matter, age is just a number.. but it would be different if you were something more then a friend with that person.
-
Now this is a truth in factor... and yet, that only meets the standards of society. Relationships have no boundaries. accept well if an adult dates a kid. Now that is sick. I figure though that after you are 19 and over you get to make your own choices and society has no say so. So if I were to see a 19 year old with a 50 year old. I figure that is their business.
-
@Nosnikda-Life-Poet Yeah I understand that, but let me ask you a question that I have been wondering, what if a child and a man really fell in love, would that still be kinda sick or no?
-
@Rissa_TheBest it all depends on the extent to which society has influenced your upbringing. Without succumbing to the freedom of openmindedness everything you see, everything you say, everything you will ever do are through the eyes mouths and body of whatever controls you. "with these eyes I am my father" goes the phrase I just invented (lol).
Your case of a relationship with the man and child isnt wrong IMO. however you would question it since the norm has taught you to do so. and at your very core you cant help it. (this is a general you) -
Well to be honest, it would be inappropriate. If you have someone under 18 they have not really experienced life. The real question is what would you expect from them. Yet, history has shown where arranged marriages have happened and many times it was adult men with girls as young as 14. Not sure how I would respond to that.
-
@AlbeitDying That's true, thank you for your genuine answer, I also 100% do believe when you said that "you can't help it, it's a general you" Like that is so true. thanks again :)
-
@Nosnikda-Life-Poet It's our own thoughts, we each see things differently but at the same time we see things all the same, (depends on the subject) and I personally think your right but again, it depends on the person, because everyone has different minds, which also leads to different thoughts.