I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Sad and Miss my Ex is that bad?
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@Matt_Aranha Being single can be good at times but not
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so you want him back but not want him back:)
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@0ADISOR0 well I don't know its hard to say
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@Kina_Joy i understand more then you think
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@0ADISOR0 yeah thanks
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i would say use the good memories to make you smile, but i know it does not work that way most of the times:)
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@Kina_Joy I know it has, I've seen that and I'm genuinely sorry. But you have also seen that it hasn't stopped people caring about you, and I have seen you care sometimes. Love and compassion beget themselves... your don't want to let people in and that is okay. The right person is going to see your worth, love you for exactly who you are, and melt your walls anyway. It might not be for years yet, but when it happens you'll see what a beautiful thing it is ♥️
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@0ADISOR0 lol I try
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@Kina_Joy said in Sad and Miss my Ex is that bad?:
@Matt_Aranha Being single can be good at times but not
Yes totally! Far better to be single than with the wrong person or - even worse - somebody who is bad for us.
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@Matt_Aranha lol you seen me care about people?? where? here?? its ok matt thanks tho
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@Kina_Joy The most recent example, when you posted your apology recently. It was heartfelt and compassionate. People who don't care aren't capable of owning their behaviour or communicating in that way.
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@Matt_Aranha oh yeah your right
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how do you usually treat sad and missing ex mood?
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@0ADISOR0 You don't wanna know
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why not?
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@0ADISOR0 because
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i did learn when a woman says because is a good time to stop asking:)
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@0ADISOR0 lol thats true
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what hint can you give so I can try to make you less sad?
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@Kina_Joy If I've come across as arrogant I apologise, I really don't mean to and I know what I've said can't be true for absolutely everyone. I'm hoping hard that it is for you though and always wishing you my best; you deserve happiness.