• just because a ton of guys pm you saying abort doesnt justify killing a new life. sorry not sorry.


  • @HanzoHarashi well it was my decision, my dad backed me up and had to sign for it


  • @emilyyyyy 😶

  • ♡ soul searchers ♡ Banned

    its done guys, noone can change it now


  • @emilyyyyy in my opinion you should look at all your options, even if you don't want to keep the baby, you can always give it up for adoption. it may be a scary thing but your child deserves the best and if you cant provide for your baby theres lots of people who are unable to have a child. hope this helped, at the end of the day its whatever you think is right !!


  • @gianna_16 to late she killed it already


  • @emilyyyyy well, you need to take responsibility


  • @HanzoHarashi aww:( shoot i really wanted to save the baby


  • @gianna_16 it was not a baby yet and i didnt want to get pregnant, would have been too big a responsibility for me


  • what do you take from a grown man, if you kill him?
    what is it you really take?
    his life?
    what is "his life"?
    if he had a happy and full life up until now, then this happy and full life, you cannot take from him.
    it's in the past
    and if not, then the past does not matter...
    so what are you taking from him?
    his family members – if he has a family – you will give pain, grieve
    his friends too
    for some time, depending on how much they liked him and how attached they were...
    but you took something from them too
    do you know what?
    you took opportunity from them. all those opportunities of being together and loving each other.
    that is what you took from him too!
    you took all his chances to continue to live a full and happy life, to add more memories, to do more good
    if he had a bad past, you took from him the chance to make up for his mistakes and errors
    you take from him the opportunity to ammend for his errors, and convert, and do a lot of good
    that is what you take from a grown man if you kill him
    opportunity. the chance to live. the future.
    you do not take the past
    the present is but a fleeting moment anyways
    no you are taking his future
    and if you abort a baby
    you do just the same
    except that the baby already had much more future ahead of itself
    even if it was not a full human being yet, it had so much potential.
    it could have grown into a full human being, it could have done so much good
    lets take a good example. do you know the actor Jack Nickolson?
    he was almost aborted...
    great man
    what would have been taken if he had been aborted? all his chances to do all the things he did
    the world would have been robbed of a great man
    and with any abortion, I am sure there were good reasons why the mother considered it. there were certain problems, that could have been solved
    thank God those problems were not solved!
    heck steve jobs was almost aborted
    no iphone... nope...
    lol
    not lol
    you get me.


  • @pe7erpark3r Good words m8


  • @Imduck said in I'm pregnant, need advice!:

    @pe7erpark3r Good words m8

    Thanks man... however if you think that... then what's the downvote for? :joy:


  • @emilyyyyy it was a baby, you created a baby and you shouldn't be having sex if its to big of a responsibility to have a child because thats always a risk, you could've given it to someone who wasn't able to have a baby. Its your baby's life, so many girls have miscarriages that truly have been trying to get pregnant for sooo long, you took away a life that could've been what some people's ideal is to make a happy family.


  • @gianna_16 yep. i agree.


  • @emilyyyyy said in I'm pregnant, need advice!:

    @John-Snow-007 tbh there are so many guys dming me telling me to abort that just dont want to get any hate on this thread lol

    and yes i asked for opinions, that does not mean i need to do what u think is right

    Your thread is really interesting!

    I read this post of yours after scrolling through the whole thread... and not remembering any hate expressed against anyone who spoke out for abortion, I read the whole thing again. And really there was no hate expressed against any of the people who spoke for abortion. There were people abusing and trolling you, but they usually spoke out for abortion, if they sayed anything on the topic at all. So this warping of perception really intrigues me...


  • @gianna_16 said in I'm pregnant, need advice!:

    @emilyyyyy it was a baby, you created a baby and you shouldn't be having sex if its to big of a responsibility to have a child because thats always a risk, you could've given it to someone who wasn't able to have a baby. Its your baby's life, so many girls have miscarriages that truly have been trying to get pregnant for sooo long, you took away a life that could've been what some people's ideal is to make a happy family.

    I'm actually surprised to see so many people speak openly for the protection of life on a site like TWS... And I'm glad that most of them, are not actually using any harsh words at all.

    @emilyyyyy You need to be aware, that people who tell you that abortion is murder, do not automatically judge you. I for one do not judge you, even though I too think it is killing (not murder). They are stating their believes and are trying to speak out for the one who has no voice yet. And usually they get a lot of hate for that...

    Which brings me to another interesting thing about your thread: those who spoke out against abortion did not get any hatred either. This is a good sign I believe, that there is hope for our generation.


  • So one last thing... Do you believe in anything other than the material world? If you do for example believe that you might live on after death, then... you believe that you have a soul, and are not just a thing, that is there to be used by men, and to use men.

    St. Thomas of Aquinas taught, that boys get their soul with 3 months and girls with 4 :joy:... He copied that from aristotle. But all of that is ofc nonesense. If you believe you live on after death, then you believe, that your soul does not need a single functioning brain cell to live. Ergo the baby also does not need a functioning brain to have a soul and be a full person. Which means the only moment that makes logical sense as to when the baby gets its soul is conception.

    That is why every non-materialist who has thought this through is against abortion. And why they speak out for the innocent. If they judge and hate the mother, they do nothing good though, because who is against the mother is obviously also against her child. Protecting life means protecting the mother, giving her warmth, support, and actual real life help with the pregnancy and everything around it.

    You might change your view of life one day, you are still very young. So if the pain over not having given the poor thing a chance ever emerges, then don't keep it to yourself. Those who really want to protect life, they will not judge you, they will receive you with open arms. Because they know, that it isn't easy. And many of them have actually aborted a child as well and realized their great error.


  • @emilyyyyy damn girl, ur still 15 and already pregnant... don't see that much these days tho, anyways who am I to judge if it's true or not right? If you rlly want advice, look to what YOU want and what your heart tells you to do. Like they say 'follow ur heart' bc that would be the most satisfied decision for urself.


  • @emilyyyyy good luck


  • I will help u