@bye69 thanks Lili. My comment wasnt about that question itself, since my curiosity was momentaneus, I'm not really interested in religion; it was about how TM loses his shit over nothing. But thanks anyway.
People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.
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@TalkWithStranger I was thinking what if we implement mute or temporary ban when a certain users disobey the rules, and they need to make an appeal in order for them to recover their account..Also we need to make a New welcome intro for every new users and attach the rules of the site..I really hope you consider this one, it might help.. also thanks to @sarah_the_magpie for opening this up.
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Hello Sarah, since i am in a very good mood to kill people with my words, here is my thought.
today, three upstanding members of the tws community decided to leave. as a community, we should introspect on the reasons. there is something wrong here.
There is nothing wrong with PEOPLE CHOICE. You cant control someone else to LEAVE OR STAY coz it is HELLA FREEDOM OF THEM.
There is no introspection, something wrong nor reasons why they have to go. THEY WANT THAT, SO YOU SHOULD RESPECT THAT.i feel like a decision has to be made by the @Global-Moderators & @TalkWithStranger concerning the nature of TalkWithStranger.com. is this site going to remain a cool little meeting place for people to make new friends and engage in lovely banter, or is it going to become a trashy sexting site with nasty ads and perverts lurking around every corner?
AGAIN? SO IT IS ALL ABOUT @Global-Moderators and @TalkWithStranger responsibilities to KEEP ALL OF HUNDRED THOUSAND USERS HERE AND THEREWITH THEIR INTENTION(S) TO STAY? WTF?
OK screw with your idealistic, powerful encourage, young life or even your "empowering" words you have. FUCK THAT, FUCK! it is all about societies. You can not control them but you can influence them that this place is worth enough for them. You can tell them that most of us are a genuine and good person or even we have such nice friendly convo here sarcasm on.i have issues with the way this site is moderated, i really do. i honestly do. i know of four individual people who've left this site because they couldn't handle the amount of creeps on this site. they have all left by now, while all the pervs are still here. what is the priority here? getting all these little messed-up creeps and catfishes to use this site in order to maximize that sweet sweet ad revenue? @Global-Moderators, please tell me whose side are you on, because at this point i'm not even sure anymore.
AGAIN, IT IS @Global-Moderators FAULT? Woa, girl. Use filters, you can manage your account. If y
i think that the priority should be making this place a safe & fun environment. no more harassment, no more toxicity. of course, we all need to check our behavior. i'll be the first one to admit that i haven't always been the most welcoming & friendliest person on this site. i will try to be kinder in the future, and provoke less drama.
OK, then you are welcome. You can leave this site and create your new site.
in my opinion, we need more moderation. this place needs a major cleanup. we need stricter rules of conduct and they need to be actually enforced, not simply treated as suggestions as they currently are.
seriously, no one in their right mind is going to want to join this site if they see 1000X topics like "i'm bored & horny" in a row. let's stop this madness.OK, then you can make your own "HELLA GREAT TOPIC" based on your idea
i love this place. i love the community here, and i love everyone who makes an effort to keep this place alive. you are all wonderful people. but we can't continue like this. today's events proved it.
FUCK THAT. IF YOU LOVE THIS PLACE, then why do you keep blaming @Global-Moderators? It means you hate this place.
i would like to hear suggestions from everyone here. how could we make this place better & more welcoming? please people, let's brainstorm and make something positive happen. let's not give up on trying to turn tws into a better place.
OK. BRAINSTORM? WELL IT IS EASY, STOP SAYING SHIT LIKE YOU DID :)
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@Nibba_Nibby
first of all, stop yelling. using caps lock won't make your arguments any better.There is no introspection, something wrong nor reasons why they have to go.
three active users leaving at the same time for the same reasons isn't a reason to be concerned about? ok
AGAIN? SO IT IS ALL ABOUT Global-Moderators and TalkWithStranger responsibilities to KEEP ALL OF HUNDRED THOUSAND USERS HERE AND THEREWITH THEIR INTENTION(S) TO STAY? WTF?
is it wrong to assume that the owner of this site should have a personal interest in making sure that this site is clean & runs successfully? yes, it is their responsibility to make it happen.
OK screw with your idealistic, powerful encourage, young life or even your "empowering" words you have. FUCK THAT, FUCK!
cute. are you 12 years old? saying the word "fuck" doesn't make you look cool. grow up pls
AGAIN, IT IS Global-Moderators FAULT? Woa, girl. Use filters, you can manage your account. If y
yes, it is. it's their job to make sure this site is moderated. that's what the word "moderator" means. why do i have to explain all these simple concepts to you? do you even know how the internet works?
FUCK THAT. IF YOU LOVE THIS PLACE, then why do you keep blaming Global-Moderators? It means you hate this place.
really? is that so? so... wanting things to change for the better equals hating this place. interesting logic there, buddy.
OK. BRAINSTORM? WELL IT IS EASY, STOP SAYING SHIT LIKE YOU DID
how very contributive and mature of you. thank you for publicly showing this incredibly irrational & mean side of you for everyone to see.
so... hmm, let's see. i rate this lil rant a soft 4 out of 10. weak arguments and you used way too much caps lock, but it was definitely amusing at times. try again, maybe you'll score higher next time ;)
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@sarah_the_magpie said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:
@Nibba_Nibby
first of all, stop yelling. using caps lock won't make your arguments any better.First of all, it will make you answer my words and see? you answer that.
There is no introspection, something wrong nor reasons why they have to go.
three active users leaving at the same time for the same reasons isn't a reason to be concerned about? ok
Why we have to concern about that? why we have to ask them to stay? give me a strong reason. I think it is all of their freedom to stay or leave, so why i have to concern that much?
AGAIN? SO IT IS ALL ABOUT Global-Moderators and TalkWithStranger responsibilities to KEEP ALL OF HUNDRED THOUSAND USERS HERE AND THEREWITH THEIR INTENTION(S) TO STAY? WTF?
is it wrong to assume that the owner of this site should have a personal interest in making sure that this site is clean & runs successfully? yes, it is their responsibility to make it happen.
No, it is not @Global-Moderators responsibility. Their responsibility is bridging people and making a decision in such hard situation. Keeping clean and run successfully are not the things that they should do. If you want to order that, PAY THEM :) you are not even an owner duh, lol.
OK screw with your idealistic, powerful encourage, young life or even your "empowering" words you have. FUCK THAT, FUCK!
cute. are you 12 years old? saying the word "fuck" doesn't make you look cool. grow up pls
Yes i am cute like 12 years old boy now :) and thanks
AGAIN, IT IS Global-Moderators FAULT? Woa, girl. Use filters, you can manage your account. If y
yes, it is. it's their job to make sure this site is moderated. that's what the word "moderator" means. why do i have to explain all these simple concepts to you? do you even know how the internet works?
Nah nah, it is not their responsibility about your whole shitting explanations above. If you want this site keep clean and run successfully, PAY THEM :) you can do donation through pay pal btw.
FUCK THAT. IF YOU LOVE THIS PLACE, then why do you keep blaming Global-Moderators? It means you hate this place.
really? is that so? so... wanting things to change for the better equals hating this place. interesting logic there, buddy.
Yes, coz i know it wont happen. You have a high expectation without any "business" involved here. Then? You take this place too serious.
OK. BRAINSTORM? WELL IT IS EASY, STOP SAYING SHIT LIKE YOU DID
how very contributive and mature of you. thank you for publicly showing this incredibly irrational & mean side of you for everyone to see.
Oh now i am seeing an idealistic person who wants to have such a good site without any payments.
K, right now, i am asking you, is there any platform IN THIS WORLD, without any payments like TWS? Show me.
If you have such purpose, then you will shift this site to be business site like facebook, instagram etc. Meanwhile, it is COMMUNITY. There is no site like that about "Community". Face the reality.
Oh one more, THE @Global-Moderators AINT PAID TO DO EVERYTHING THEY HAVE TO DO, you should be grateful at least there are several people who want to take care of this siteso... hmm, let's see. i rate this lil rant a soft 4 out of 10. weak arguments and you used way too much caps lock, but it was definitely amusing at times. try again, maybe you'll score higher next time ;)
Hmm. I think now i am smarter than you :) like thanks for saying i am cute.
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@Nibba_Nibby Facebook and instagram are not business sites. They have options to create a business account but they are not business sites in themselves. They are social media websites. Sure some people believe being "Instagram" famous is a real job but it really isn't.
I understand that no one can force someone to continue to remain where they no longer want to be. But I also get wanting to keep this place from turning into well, Tinder.
You could possibly be "smart" but at age 12 your brain is still developing you won't know for sure just how smart you really are until you are 25 years old.
A moderator is suppose to be a neutral party which means they are not suppose to choose another person's side just because they are close or have created a friendship with the person who is in the wrong. Choosing to leave because the con's outweigh the pro's is a choice yes but it also puts all the negatives into light for other people to start questioning it. It is alright to have an opinion of your own. But don't be a dick about it. You are 12 so maybe one day you will learn how the real world works.
Also, Some websites do pay their moderators depending on skill set and experience. Now I am not sure if this site does or not but I am not going to assume they are and I am also not going to assume they aren't. Either way they willingly signed up to participate in being a moderator, So they should not show favoritism towards certain people or abuse their powers.
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@Nibba_Nibby
I think it is all of their freedom to stay or leave, so why i have to concern that much?
it's fine if you don't care about this site. i do, but you're welcome not to.
Keeping clean and run successfully are not the things that they should do.
keeping this site clean isn't the responsibility of the moderators? sigh
nibby, i have no desire to explain to you over and over again what the word "moderator" means. please google it.right now, i am asking you, is there any platform IN THIS WORLD, without any payments like TWS? Show me.
ever heard of a site called reddit? or a site called tumblr? or a site called omegle?
THE @Global-Moderators AINT PAID TO DO EVERYTHING THEY HAVE TO DO
that doesn't mean that they cannot be criticised. it is a voluntary position, they chose to accept it. no one is forcing them to do it.
Hmm. I think now i am smarter than you 🙂 like thanks for saying i am cute.
you aren't particularly cute as a human being. not really a word i'd use to describe you or any qualities you might have. creepy and sort-of delusional, maybe. definitely not cute tho.
you know what? i have no desire to continue this little stupid battle any further. i'm willing to, but i'd be doing it only out of malice. i didn't join this site to argue with people like you, i came here to make new friends. this is all just so incredibly stupid. this site and all of this toxicity is legit giving me a headache. like i try to inspire people to find new ways to make this site even better and then assholes like you just have to appear and spew your hate everywhere. just log off and run as far away as possible from your computer, you autistic piece of shit. go and stalk alliley or whatever that fake girlfriend of yours was called, you fucking creep
also, people of tws, consider this my resignation. bye. i've fucking had it with this place. i'm never coming back here again.
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@sarah_the_magpie awww ok. :) FINALLY YOU LEFT XD
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@Desian
They are turning to business site rn. Facebook even has fans page or community.
Instagram? lol, you can find a lot of influencers who suggested you use every products they want.I understand that no one can force someone to continue to remain where they no longer want to be. But I also get wanting to keep this place from turning into well, Tinder.
That's the point. Hence, don't keep the blame on those @Global-Moderators
If you are a new joiner, you will understand that A LOT OF PEOPLE tried to leave but at the end they are back to hereYou could possibly be "smart" but at age 12 your brain is still developing you won't know for sure just how smart you really are until you are 25 years old.
Yes, that is great taste from your dark sense humor. I just dont get it, like this girl is such a mom who wants to buy groceries with 150% discounts but at the end she has nothing to do unless wasting his time to do this.
A moderator is suppose to be a neutral party which means they are not suppose to choose another person's side just because they are close or have created a friendship with the person who is in the wrong. Choosing to leave because the con's outweigh the pro's is a choice yes but it also puts all the negatives into light for other people to start questioning it. It is alright to have an opinion of your own. But don't be a dick about it. You are 12 so maybe one day you will learn how the real world works.
Then, i suggest you to be a next moderator, you will understand how hard to be in that title. @TalkWithStranger hello, if you read this mention from me, give this person chances, then you can hear a lot of this person explanation about this site before and after.
Also, Some websites do pay their moderators depending on skill set and experience. Now I am not sure if this site does or not but I am not going to assume they are and I am also not going to assume they aren't. Either way they willingly signed up to participate in being a moderator, So they should not show favoritism towards certain people or abuse their powers.
Nope, i trust all of my @Global-Moderators fellas know how they have to act and their responsibility long ago before you even join this site. 7. Nov. 2019 is a short time to have such judgement. Feel it. Talk to me again if you already passed 6 months here. i will open my dm to share your thoughts with me.
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@Nibba_Nibby All I will say now is your reply back to them just shows the immaturity level you are at. If you remain in this disposition when you are an adult, Life is going to wear you down quickly. But I guess this is the youth of society today. Disrespectful, Shallow minded, Showing no signs of improvement or trying to be a decent human being. It is pretty inconceivable you would think seeing as the younger generations are our future. It is sad yet a bit pathetic as well. The human race is fucked.
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@Desian now you got my dark sense of humour dude. congrats.
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@Nibba_Nibby Nah I am not interested in talking to an uneducated 12 year old child. Definitely not when I am explaining thing's as polite as possible and still have the person be rude about it. I was also explaining actual facts that the brain literally does not fully develop until age 25 if you don't believe me look it up for yourself and start educating yourself. But of course you want to try and be a smartass because you were probably inbred. Anyways there is no further need after this to respond to anymore of your responses since they are all childish and I am not going to waste my time you're not my kid so you're not my problem.
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@Desian k k k ;) i understand
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@Nibba_Nibby i kinda agree with you but do look at my suggestions too and thrash mine as well🤣🤣🤣🤣 and not everyone likes to see the dark side like you and me and few others do so it's okay of they demand for a cleanup at this place....😈😈
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@Nibba_Nibby Hey. You made Sarah leave. Go fuck yourself bro.
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@sarah_the_magpie just ignore the ones you don't like...what about the rest of the ones that like you to be here? And supporting you in this battle that you started...even tws responded appreciating your efforts as they also agree that some things need to change... don't give up on us yet if you don't have to
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@Akkii said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:
This place has a rating system and have got reputation marking for each profile....so if someone with good reputation marks Someone down that should ban them or it should lead towards that...
People can already do that by flagging users. What you suggest would unfortunately be abused very easily by users who simply want to see other users they don’t like gone. :/
saying this as the creeps might mark down good people as well to get back at them...the algorithm needs to change a bit...and moderators need to do their job more actively on topics to remove the bad ones....or just quit if you just want to show that moderator tag beside your name and just do nothing....appoint more moderators with good reputation and those who are active and willing to do that job.... @TalkWithStranger
You might not be able to see it, but the active moderators here are constantly on the lookout for spammers, offensive content, creep posts, etc and responding to flags and inquiries of users in need. Idk what more you can want from us :/ Should we be deleting every single post of users looking for partners/nudes/sexting/etc? We’re already constantly moving those to the appropriate category which normal users can ignore as @Div showed.
I don’t think the issue here is to be fully blamed on the moderation if you don’t mind me saying. Sure, an increase of mods will mean more help moving those topics and warding away creeps, but we’ve been doing that since the creation of this website even when we had more mods. That’s just like putting a bandaid on an bullet hole and hope it stops bleeding after a while.
When it comes down to it, there are two main types of target audience to this place, peeps looking for hookups and peeps looking for interesting people to chat with. Thing is no matter what you do, the creeps will keep on coming. We should be figuring out how to improve the layout of this place so these two types of users can thrive without bothering one another.
Problem is it’s hard to separate the two and unless the whole design of the website changes idk how we could effectively keep them apart. We’re already moving those topics to separate categories but seems like that’s not enough..@sarah_the_magpie said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:
@KETholic
If you are being creeped out by anyone, there is a block button, and you never will have to talk to them again.
tbh blocking solves nothing. back in october, i was harassed by a user who wrote insulting replies to my every comment for at least a week. i blocked him, but it didn't stop him from writing the replies. i flagged him and i was told by a mod that he was allowed to do it, and i was a jerk for flagging him.
so no, blocking doesn't work.@TalkWithStranger should look into fixing that feature :/
thanks for replying tho. you and @div are the only global mods who cared enough to respond. even if my tone is negative, i do appreciate it.
i guess the other mods don't feel like these issues are a problem, which makes it easier to tell whose side they are on.Quick reminder that it’s not because some mods didn’t reply to this topic that there aren’t doing anything and actively looking for solutions. 😅
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@WtfPoutindith i understand your point and apologize for not understanding the hard work you guys are already doing to make this place better everyday...
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@Akkii i already told that Magie girl who posted such contents with my way. But she is kind of stubborn and think that all of moderators should obey whatever users want. Like DA HELL 😂 are you even that important? 😑
Fyi Akki, all of moderators here are unpaid! But they try their best. Instead of arguing or blaming em for their actions, please put on their shoes first. Even Jess gave up to be live chat moderator in 2 months. How about them? Did they do that? Nah. You dunno how they have to struggle with their limitation and keep this site better. Thats why i made the topic to tease her THEN I GOT A LOT OF HATERS, YEAY! 😂 -
Oh this Maggie is ded after creating this drama 😂 what an uneducated and irresponsible person she is. 😁
