Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
I have some really big news!!!
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So I know I haven't been on here recently, and I've been trying to be on here more often but do to the news I have, I have been really really busy. So here's the news. I'm gonna be a dad y'all 😱😱 I know scary right, but I think I got this lol. So yeah, that's my news. I hope y'alls past month has been good. Also congrats @KETholic you're gonna be an aunt!
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@BOOTS22 I was going to be a mom but I got rid of the baby, but have fun
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@SUSHIII oh trust me I will lmao I love kids.
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@BOOTS22 haha ok I dealt with 9 siblings I don't think a baby fits me
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A BIG NO NO
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@BOOTS22 congratulations!!!
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@Gemini_Beta thank ya! :)
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@SUSHIII a big no no for what? I have 4 older siblings and I'm the only one who wants kids so
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Lol I love kids but no for a baby I am not ready to have a fat stomach lol and be stretched out
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@SUSHIII well it's not me being stretched out and stuff, it's my girlfriend and she wanted one to so.
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congratulations!!!!!!! I am so happy for you. :)
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@pardis2001 thank you! :)
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How old are you, sir?
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@VCA I'm 17
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@BOOTS22 Ou man all i can tell is be ready for the dedication. The patience is what lacks in modern society so arm yourself with it. Congrats
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@VCA thanks man. Idk both her and I are really good with kids, hell, her mom adopted a little 2 year old and pretty much gave it to my girlfriend so.
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And now i realise dedication word, is for dading... "Dad"ication
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@BOOTS22 would i bother you if i ask where you from?
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@VCA I'm from Georgia