• @Pamela brilliant Pamela, seen.a bunch of good posts on here today but you take top.spot. can't beat a bit of intelligence articulately delivered and with a bit of bite to it too


  • @sameersaifi have you considered that you may be contributing to the responses you get (or don't get) ? Maybe time for a little contemplation and reflection. And a.little advice, it sounds like you're maybe a little over anxious? That won't help you, try to.relax


  • It sounds like you're the one that needs to change your mind. You need to change your perception about your thoughts verses reality. It also sounds like you need to do some deep thinking to be in touch with yourself and embrace who you are as a person. Shift your course toward your passions. Sulking is counterproductive and often negative thoughts become a self fulfilling prophecy.


  • Damn right Women are not standardized, we who we are and out mindset as you say is the product of men who have preyed on us for many many years, Why do you think we got to washrooms in groups, not just to gossip but to be safe, same when going out mostly in pairs or groups, men have made us all defensive when meeting someone new. Catcalls, wolf whistles, porn sites, rape culture, even forced prostitution, have a part in the so-called mindset you think is just women snubbing their noeses at men when men long ago already done the deed. So if you really want to be friends with a "Woman" not a girl be open, honest, forthcoming, and mostly be patient



  • @Ladydoall30 brilliant, straight from the heart and right on target, fuck, i consider myself an aware modern man and you've given me some things to consider there, kudos and respect to you xx


  • @sameersaifi well.my friend, that's three extraordinarily eloquent, perceptive, insightful women have given you better advice than i ever could. Listen to them and grow. I'm 45 and I'm listening and impressed and educated by their words, you're never too old or too young to learn.


  • I should really get together with all of you and cowrite a novel on this that only %2 of the opposite sex will read


  • @Pamela said in girls should change their mindset.....:

    Hi @sameersaifi,

    Women aren't standardized products, each person is a unique individual with different opinions.
    To claim that you know what is going through the mind of each member of the female gender isn't just naive but highly preposterous.
    I would suggest that you try to get involved in the community instead of whining around about girls not paying you attention.
    Making friends isn't difficult if that's what you are looking for.

    This pamela is actually full of wisdom 😏
    I like these words. K. Later, debate me about how people should act vs people should say.


  • @AllAboutGay i love your relentlessness, if there's a world war 3 i wanna be on your side please 😁


  • @Feminazi hello!!


  • I slightly feel empathy for you, wondering what had escalated you to such a point to make such a bold statement.
    We all hurt at times and we all express ourselves in different ways.
    If your here to make friends, build relationships or just here for good social interaction, it may be helpful to think about how your words can impact on others.
    What a person feels and how they perceive a conversation entirely depends on the person your talking to, some people are stand-off types and can feel uncomfortable when boundaries get crossed or get a gut feeling.
    Yes females tend to trust their instincts, but so do males, it’s called being human.