this is a ...disturbing topic, care to shed some background? any time of violence or abuse is not tolerated here or in person
How do I get over a broken heart?
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@otsbunny No one can help u to get over,until unless you want to move on. You just need to think whatever happens happens for good n move on that's it.
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There is only one true answer to your question and it is not an easy one. You have to break it again.
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My GF cheated me after 6 years of relationship i am really broked she also cries alot about her mistake i want to forgive her but she just blocked me.. I really need to talk to a wise person i am totally broken i scared of going outside and talk to people thinking that if they see my tears they will laught at me i don't know what is happening in my life why it become so complicated i feel like everything is finished except my tears
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Ive been out of a relationship for 2 years now and ive even been dating someone new for over a year. The thing is i was in love with this guy for over 5 years and we were so passionate about eachother. I really thought he was going to be the man i married.he broke up with me and completly shattered my world and then he asked me to wait for him. I did for a while and it wasnt until i told him i was seeing someone that he realized that i was startjng to move on. He did everything he could to win me back but i just couldnt forgive him for how badly he had hurt me. I went through stages over the last 2 years of getting over him and missing him like crazy. Flash forward to now and i still feel like he was my soulmate but im seeing someone else now and i really do love the man im with hes good to me the way my ex never was and is a family man which ive never had. I guess why im writing this is because deep down im still helplessly in love with my ex but i know i shouldnt do anything about it. I just cant express my feelings to my friends and family and its been eating me alive. I dont know how to live with this pain. I dont know if i should just suck it up and get over it and be with the man who treats me better or find out if my soulmate became the man i always wanted him to be. But also this man im with now i would never ever want to do anything to hurt him, hes become my family we live together have a couple pets together and i think i just need to shove these other feelings down but its just so hard.
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Ive been out of a relationship for 2 years now and ive even been dating someone new for over a year. The thing is i was in love with this guy for over 5 years and we were so passionate about eachother. I really thought he was going to be the man i married.he broke up with me and completly shattered my world and then he asked me to wait for him. I did for a while and it wasnt until i told him i was seeing someone that he realized that i was startjng to move on. He did everything he could to win me back but i just couldnt forgive him for how badly he had hurt me. I went through stages over the last 2 years of getting over him and missing him like crazy. Flash forward to now and i still feel like he was my soulmate but im seeing someone else now and i really do love the man im with hes good to me the way my ex never was and is a family man which ive never had. I guess why im writing this is because deep down im still helplessly in love with my ex but i know i shouldnt do anything about it. I just cant express my feelings to my friends and family and its been eating me alive. I dont know how to live with this pain. I dont know if i should just suck it up and get over it and be with the man who treats me better or find out if my soulmate became the man i always wanted him to be. But also this man im with now i would never ever want to do anything to hurt him, hes become my family we live together have a couple pets together and i think i just need to shove these other feelings down but its just so hard.
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I feel you. Heartbreak fucking hurts. I broke up with my bf a bit ago and he started calling me names and stuff. He called me things i would never dream of calling anyone.
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@Vanie its just crazy how these people we think we know can become complete strangers
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@otsbunny I wanna give some advices but on the other hand I realized that I'll be hypocrite coz we are in the same boat.
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@otsbunny salut, moi je te conseil de garder ton calme et de prendre la vie du bon côté, toujours positif
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Fix it with superglue.
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@ALLILEY hahah yah exactly 😂
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How you get over a broken heart? psssshh, get a new girl/boyfriend. there are millions of people outside, only stupid people who don't love themselves go through heartbreaks, lmao.
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@Addicted4life when you are grown up enough to have a life with someone, be homeless with them, pay bills together, go through suffering and hardship together you best believe both those people will be broken hearted when it ends. It has nothing to do with loving your self because true pure love means that you care about someone else first. Im pretty sure this thread isnt here to laugh at the people who feel things, its to understand and grow and learn how to move past those feelings. That post was childish and immature and you should learn to realize that even though words dont affect you they affect others in very drastic ways.
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Agreed. I am sorry to hear that man. Be strong.
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@Vanie Stop bching and get over it, get a new man, new car, new children and start all over, people who get hurt easily are the ones who lack sympathy, true love is when you love someone just for who they are and accept how the world works, yes be hurt but don't come online crying boohoo plz gimme sympathy, I have boobs, booohoo plz guys. That's just utterly PATHETIC, Case closed.
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@Addicted4life wtf. I said i felt sorry for them. Chill out
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Hi..you think you're doing the right thing by staying with the partner you have now but you are actually robbing him of his true love. You will never give him your all because someone else has half of your heart. Always be true to yourself. It's better to be happy than right.
Nia
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When my girlfriend left me I did nothing except thinking about money , I decided to care only about money and found extra ways of making it , including gambling https://klarnacasino.co.uk/ , I like playin poker and it also helps me to get extra cash and not to think about my ex.
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When I read how you describe your relationship with your ex I feel like I could bv use your words to describe my relationship with mine. We were together over half our lives. Hes all I know and all I want to know. I went 3 years without him because he cheated on me. I missed him daily and never even tried dating anyone else because he is the only man for me. He turns me on like no man ever could or ever will. Its unbelievable how my mind and body respond to him and him alone. Because of this i feel theres no point bothering with any other man. I have to have this man.
I hate being alone almost as much as i hate living without him. I know this is how you feel about your ex. I have no offers of great wisdom for you how to get over him because I cant even do it. I am writing because i believe you understand what i am experiencing. I know in my soul this pain will never go away. I wish I would die everyday just to escape the pain. Its brutal and I dont know how to go on. I've tried dating and it was disgusting. One man was a xo.pkete gentleman the whole evening. Opened my car door, walked me to my front door and then followed me in and came within seconds of raping me. Another freak seemed normal and then said our "date" was an interview for me to be a sex partner for him and his wife and did I object to be confined to a cage under their bed when not servicing them!!!!!! So not only do I have to live without the only person I've ever loved but these are my options??? Why not just shoot myself in the face and get it over with?
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Have sex
