@JeanneGenealogy consult the bro of the grandma of the father of your grandma's grandfather.
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Would that sexual attention be sought into the same person that fulfils the second option I gave you? Or it could be any other male?
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@Lurker no they have to fulfill the second option like you said
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Word of advice then :sweat_smile: Guys that are looking for that kind of girls are often jerks, try to filter as much as you can hahahah... And I wish a very good luck in finding "the one" :p
Also, here's something you will like... for sure:
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@OliveOlivia do you Skype my dear
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Word of advice then :sweat_smile: Guys that are looking for that kind of girls are often jerks, try to filter as much as you can hahahah... And I wish a very good luck in finding "the one" :p
Yeah, I've learned that 😂 but thank you!
Also, here's something you will like... for sure:
perfect song for this post 😂
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@OliveOlivia it not as much Daddy issues as it is with in love
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@blahs3xy Im sorry, i don't
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@OliveOlivia That's a brave thing you've just done (whether anonymously under a pen-name or not) and you deserve the utmost respect for it. Whatever happens I hope you find the support here outweighs any hate you might receive.
Sometimes it is easier to open up to people not connected to our situation than those who know us best. The advice we get is objective and there is a certain layer of insulation - if they betray our confidence and trust we can walk away from them relatively unscathed. I think it makes a lot of sense to put feelers out in a place like this. Rest assured you are NOT lame.
Attention and attachment are incredibly complex issues which can't be resolved online in a day/night. But if you feel good about writing things down, putting them out here, then that's a positive start. You've realised your situation and that self-awareness is a big thing, it will stand you in great stead as you move forward dealing with this. Just, and I'm sure I don't need to say this but in case I do, please stay safe. There are opportunists in the world (not necessarily here, I generalise) who if aware of your situation will attempt to take advantage of it.
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@OliveOlivia line one up we can chat and I can give you a show you would like
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Would that sexual attention be sought into the same person that fulfils the second option I gave you? Or it could be any other male?
This hits a little near to home, I can't decide if after what I've been through this year I should back away from this topic or it gives me a uniquely qualified perspective...
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@Matt_Aranha Wow, I wasn't expecting this much kindness, thank you!:)
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A piece of advice is always good, you weren't the only one that had to deal with those :joy: but yeah... yours is at a new level :shrug:
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@OliveOlivia It's the least any of us can do, and that's very good to know 🙂
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@OliveOlivia the hardest thing to learn is how to live! Most people suffer from multiple issues from their child hood. You have to truly move past it with believing in yourself. Confidence in your achievements not matter what the out come.
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@OliveOlivia see honey there is only emotion in life the people, outside of yourself have control over. That is their sexual being in your eye. Love, hurt and hate all come from with in you.
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@OliveOlivia are you a horny female?
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@Matt_Aranha Offered perspective is helpful and appreciated but mental health comes first! Im sorry if this topic was a trigger
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@OliveOlivia OMG noooooo not at all!! I'm thinking more about your wellbeing right now!! I'm fine, I promise.
Don't get me wrong I do have triggers 😂 but this topic is fine 🙂
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@OliveOlivia mental health is a choice that only comes from with in you. Your happiness and love are only to be controlled by you. Never let anyone get the best of you my love.
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@OliveOlivia tell me this are you are overly sexual? Elaborate on this my dear cause it all be a facade