hey can we talk?
For all the people that wanna commit suicide
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what if you don't have true friends, or you just don't have friends..everyone gave up on you..! does it mean i'm too bad to be loved..?
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@kat_15 sometimes, it's not that everything is positive. No matter how optimistic you are, you can't change something.
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@humanbean89 ever read Eminem's biography?
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I just wanted to add something. and say to people who think about suiciding. Just before u take any wrong step just think about your parents or the closest ones that you have and how will they feel when they don't have u besides them holding hands. They brought u into this world and they spent their lives just giving everything u need. And what u decide to do just for some grades or some random guy or girl who doesn't even know you for a year or whatever the reason, that's completely ridiculous and stupid. Their life will be like pointless because of your one imamture decision. Imagine if someone close to you committed suicide. How would you feel? That's exactly how your closed ones will feel. And don't give excuses like you were so out of options and were so helpless that you had to suicide. Suicide is an excuse for you but your closest people are the ones who will suffer the most. Just hold on and keep moving because I know and I promise that it will get better, it always does.
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@blue No it does not mean that you're bad. It's not anything wrong with u but it's wrong with the people who don't appreciate who you really are. It's their loss that they don't have someone wonderful in their life not yours. What others think about you doesn't matter, What you think about yourself does. So keep calm and love yourself because when you truly love yourself, then wonders happen. Cheers.
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@calisthenics thnx.. it made me happy reading what you said
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@ash1710 You can’t change everything but, you shouldn’t commit suicide
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This is what I’m trying to say. If you kill yourself, then how is that helping you in any way possible?
And the award for best boldie goes to DayShifter xD
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@blue It may not seem like it, but you have SO many people in this world that love you and would die for you ❤️♥️
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@im-a-bae Awh thanks ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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@kat_15 no need :blush: thank yourself cuz this can help a lot of people... just beautiful in every way <3 <3 <3 <3
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what if you never really had anyone. no close friends or family. your own adoption papers from the orphanage literally say "after a short fling a baby was born and taken to xyz orphanage" I've never known "love" lust, yes. love no. everyone I tried to love or trust fucked me over multiple times.
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@kat_15
I stop the pain and pointless usage of life. the "gift" of life? I never asked for it. What store can I return it to? I'm useless to society. I've been trying to get a job for years....and nobody even says no thanks. my family doesn't talk to me, I have no friends, and I live with mentally ill people in a "psych rehab" program. Not many people leave unless they violate rules or die. A guy has been here longer than I've been alive. If I was dead, then the room I'm in could go to one of these crazy mf-ers who need the help. If I had a job, I'd be better off. I have no $ for food, transportation, or a social life. I have nothing. All I have is a duffel bag I took from my parents' place. Didn't bother to take pictures of them with me since I knew they'd write me out of their lives. I heard my "mother" talk to one of her friends. She said YOU think YOU have problems with you child, meet Michelle. She has never tried to interact with me or love me. And another of her friends asked my older brother who's a special ed teacher that since he teaches retards, he should be able to help me. See? no support whatsoever from "family" and my "friends" took all my money, used me, abused and raped me, and left me on the street. I have a fucking reason I want to die. No amount of shoulder petting and bs saying it'll be fine would EVER help. Having depression over losing a job is one thing. Medical is it's own minefield.
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@kat_15 in short your speech saying that you have to be there for your lonely and depressed friends so they wont even try to think suicide themselves. Nice shot girls and good explanations.
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@blue Glad to hear that :)
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You also need to realize that sometimes people need to be left alone when they're depressed and suicidal. Some are just thinkers, not actually going to do anything. The thought does count that you offer to be there, but sometime all that head petting and shoving articles at us to read and tips that CNN or whatever says is ideal, isn't always, You never know how someone else feels until you've been in their shoes and walked down the same path. It's better to ask HOW can I help and wait and listen to what they say then presume you know what's right and annoy them by making them think you are a know it all and don't value them to listen to what they want to tell you...
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- meant than presume*
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@humanbean89 I have no idea what you are going through because i have never been in that situation. I can't give u any suggestions as i am not an expert. But just want to say hold onto the life you have got because Life is everything. Beyond life noone knows what's there. And btw f*** the society and f*** everyone who has done anything bad to you. If you take wrong step you are not the only one taking the wrong step. You are teaching other people to give up when life f**** them up. You are proving everyone who has abused that they were right Prove them wrong by being strong and don't give up so that you can help other people who have been in situations just like you. Never understimate the power of a single person. One person can change the entire world.
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hey sooo umm... i have tried committing suicide before so this is personal and i thank and love you from the bottom of my cold desperate heart for this. thank you...
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I have been. I've been fighting to try and get ANY job. now they want you to be over qualified for the simplest jobs. Back when I was in school, all you needed to be a cashier at Target was a high school diploma...I've applied there many times...and nothing. I've applied to businesses that I have experience...and nothing...for almost 10 years I've been jobless, homeless, and SOL. It is hard to find money for food let alone happiness when nobody wants to help. I've gone to shelters in the past and they turned me away because people my age aren't homeless and jobless. She thought I was trying to steal from them. I want to go back to school, but I don't even have enough money for an application fee. I want to better my life, but society is making it pretty fucking hard to tread water. And once people hear I have depression and where I currently am staying, they treat me like shit. I am trying to fight the stigma of mental illness, but I am getting no help from anyone anywhere except the measly social security checks each month that don't really help.
Fine. Keep petting our heads and saying "you'll get better soon. You'll get a job soon. It'll be better soon. Drink more water and eat healthy" if it'll make YOU feel better. But not actually helping hurts. Saying you understand someone's pain when you've never experienced it yourself hurts. Saying you'll be there no matter what and you aren't hurts. We need people to stfu and actually take the time to listen and not post all these self help crap posts online. We know what to do. We deal with it on a daily basis. Just because some famous celebrity died from suicide doesn't mean the topic is popular. IT IS ALWAYS HERE. Keep talking about it, no matter if some famous guy dies or if it was your friend. Putting it in the back of your mind 3 months after it's out of the news doesn't help. Be aware.
