Thanks that was not lame I have never had good luck lol... I just believe that I am here to make the world better for others... I believe that there r givers and takers (with varying degrees of mix in between I. E. A person may be 25% giver and 75% taker)... Takers of the extreme r also referred to as narcissistic... Takers should keep to the takers but they need the givers to survive... The givers ( also referred to as enabler) r usually left starving for the things they need to survive like love attention security support and the taker thrives like a demon stealing a soul... Now if a giver finds a giver that's amazing... Hold back a bit... U should quickly learn to spot them... I knew my new husband was a taker... He just hid it until after the wedding... And he hid it well... I truly know in my heart that I have to walk away from this... And I hope u will figure things out... I'm here if u want to keep talking... Will be back read the link it's an article on givers takers and marchers (the mixed group)

https://www.lemonade.com/blog/psychology-givers-takers-matchers-2/