hi people
ADVICE NEEDED!!!
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@inxane_teen take it from someone who had been in the same situation, just leave her and don't obsess urself with her, if she wants you she'll definitely come back to you. Sometimes you have to be a real man and let things go, to see if they can come back.even if they didn't then be a man and move on..
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Agreed, dont chase she clearly is unsure and playing games, walk away with the best intentions, even if she makes contact treat it friendly she is in that phase where she wants attention and boyfriends but super unsure, you can go only rise from there.
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@inxane_teen dw man, you 100% gonna be her rebound sksk
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LOL thanks for the replies so far. our relationship is not romantic at all. it is purely platonic. i just wouldnt like to lose a great frienship over her having a boyfriend. I am over it. i was just wondering if i should try to make contact one more time or just leave it alone for good. Peek_A_Boom i liked your pov best, thanks.
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when we ended things it wasnt a "we arent friends anymore" it was more of a "i have a boyfriends and i feel like im cheating on him if i talk to you. so we are friends but we just cant talk anymore." my response was a "uhhhh....we talk about music and memes, but uh okay i guess goodluck if you ever need a friend ill be here" and that was pretty much our last convo.
everyone online is saying "just leave her alone and move on" while everyone i know personally or anyone who somewhat knew her aswell are saying "just give her space and remain friends. let her figure things out and dont throw away a frienship over some dumbass bf" lmao
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Yasminthewise lol youre looking at it too deep bro. im not stopping my life over her or anything major. i just wouldnt like to lose all contact with someone i got close with but at the end of the day i wouldnt like to lose her without even trying. if we both give up then was our frienship ever even real??
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@TM dont want to date her just looking to not lose an important friend lol id be ok with her having a bf id even go to their wedding if she didnt feel like my precense was cheating on him lol
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@inxane_teen why u not like my pov the best, its the truest, She literally said it herself, If tbey break up you csn talk again, literally making you a rebound, forget that boitch, she wants to end a friendship because she has a new bf she isnt worth pursuing, you should wait till she comes running back then say that ucdont wanna talk to her cus u are interested in someone else or smn heheh
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@WtfDeckoFalls lol yours was very brief and somewhat sarcastic. id do that to a bitch i didnt care about or to a girl id date/fuck. In this case i just want my friend back. she said we couldnt be friends because she had feeling for me at some point and she wouldnt like to lie to her bf if he asks who i am and if she felt anything. so to avoid that scenario she chose to just cut things off.
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i guess to an extent i understand her situation. Its either her bf who loves her and shes in a relationship with or one of her bestfriends. id chose my girlfriend over any friend i guess. but at the same time if i talk to her again and shes just an asshole then id definitely cut things off. i wont be chasing her around but i also dont want to just throw everything out like its nothing. i believe every friendship is worth fighting for, but it has to be from both sides. if i see she gav up then yeah fuck her lol
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@inxane_teen You're playing around . You know It 😉😂
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@TM sure?
