Love without sex
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Can someone find love without sex?
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@Nouha of course someone can find love without sex. Sex comes after love in my opinion.
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@Nouha Kinda dumb question tbh. No offense with that.
Of course love can be found without sex. -
@niceguynmac i know right?
My boyfriend broke up with me because i didn't want to send him pics of my nudity. Like why is it like that. -
@Hugoo99 well my relationships don't last long because of this problem. It's always the same thing.
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@Nouha Then my advice for you should be: Don't start relationship until you met person very well.
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@Hugoo99 thanks fo the advice. That's what i am doing going forward.
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@Nouha oh, let me ask you: for how long was he your boyfriend? You can reply on pm too if you don't want here.
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@niceguynmac we were together for 2 years.
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@Nouha Together for 2 years and he broke up for that reason? Something seems wrong here but okay. I just think he did not want to be your boyfriend anymore and found a childish reason to break up or something like that. I can't think breaking up with my gf over smth like that. Something must be wrong with his reasoning, I mean everyone has their reasons but it just seems a little weird for me.
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@niceguynmac he said that it's normal for gfs to send pictures to their bfs . But i wasn't comfortable with his request .
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So like oppisite of tinder right
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@Couch-SHlTER what is?
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@Nouha He sounds like a bit of a douche if I'm honest. There is no blanket "normal" which covers all relationships, only what is normal for the people directly involved. Good on you for not allowing yourself to be pressured.
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@Nouha Yeah, but unfortunately it's a rare case these days. Lucky enough if you'll find someone with a pure intention and love you that weigh heavier than lust.
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Shit... this hit my feels
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I'm gay and in the LGBTQ community all everyone cares about is sex; I guess in general too. I love sex, don't get me wrong, but what ever happened to the days where you would take them on a car drive and talk, it's the small things that matter, not sex, because i would love to spend hours just loving someone without sex.
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@Nouha It's a matter of definition in my opinion cz I'm pretty sure that everyone has his own love definition since some may not see a difference between love and sex since sex gives a kind of satisfaction that love without it may give on a psychological level but the kind of feeling needed for every person differs too cz not every person has the same emotional level or gap to fill but the opposite . I can definetly write a book abt this topic in my language lol
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@Nouha love has nothing to with sex. You love your mom. In fact it’s a little sleazy to equate the two.
Don’t you love your grandma?
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@Nouha 😂 wtf is this question?
Uh, what kind of relationship you are looking for? In my previous relationship, i dont want to do sex before marriage. This is the thing that i believe, if you want to do that, do it when you are saint (as virgin) and you take that marriage paper, so you can be responsible for any actions you do that time.Can we have love without sex? Yes. I never see my ex/my partner or Judy as a sex machine. What do i get from all of them? Feelings fulfilment, a great companion ever, a debate friend with many emotions, someone whom i can rely on as well as a person whom i can grow up with in this journey :) many memories that i cant explain, but thats wonderful. By having them, i can do my transformations to be someone better step by step ahead. Thats my experience.
In regards of your boyfriend, you perhaps find the unrighteous person atm. Wishing you all the best!