For those of you who have bullied others or been bullied by others



  • Hi, I was bullied when I was little. The thing is I still remember it no matter how hard I tried to forget and the bully somehow just go on with her life, maybe she doesn't even remember the impact that she has given to me but, I can't help to think that this is so unfair. I would like to hear both sides opinions.
    Have you ever got bullied or bullied others before?
    How do you cope with it?
    Do you feel remorse?



  • @taropudding Bullying is wrong. It's never ok. It's never cool. It never makes you look good by doing it. You always have a choice. Be the person that is smart enough and confident enough to be friends with everyone you meet. By doing so, you're sending the message that you're self-assured enough not to care what others may think.



  • @taropudding Bullying doesn't help anyone. Forgetting about the incident is hard when the incident has happened at a young age.
    In many cases, the bullies themselves would be under the impression that they will find more attention or acceptance within a community or group. They themselves seek approval from others. This can pester them so much that they end up picking on others to seek validation and acceptance. Some disillusioned people see bullying as a means of projecting an alpha personality. Though it might sound blunt, some people are simply mean. Too mean for their own and others' good.

    Feelings of remorse and a sense of guilt is usual. Many bullies keep going on coz they aren't much aware of, or haven't given proper thought to, the effects of their actions. Whatever be the reasons, bullying is counterproductive, even to the bullies.



  • What's in the past cannot be changed, but you can control how you respond to it now. Now, you have the opportunity to make healthy choices for yourself. Dig out what you can do to tackle it.
    Identify the activities and skills that you believe will make you more confident. Work towards building and strengthening yourself that way.



  • @taropudding People those Bully also get Bullied on their lifes....They are just Frustrated.....and They Just do that' to gain your attention...Try to ignore them...I know it's Difficult 😢 ..They Suffered from Sad past that's Why They can't see you happy... Just Be yourself : )

    Ignore grammar mistakes, please



  • @GreyWind Indeed. Thank you for saying so and for giving me a great advice.



  • @ANYA_TH Thank you. You're so wise 🙂



  • @taropudding Thank you dear, always welcome.
    (づ。◕‿‿◕。)づ








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