Relationship problems need solutions

[sai89]

Hey guys if you ever felt that, your husband/lover didn't respect you and verbally abused, then what will you do? Will you continue the relationship or end the relationship?

[UK male 420]

@sai89 if feeling mega disrespected and verbally abused all time, i would pick up and go, no one deserves that especially from someone that is meant to love and cherish you

[sai89]

@ScottishGuy hey thanks.i decided to end my relationship. If there is no respect, love, trust and friendship in the relationship , is not worth. But my family wants me to forgive him and move on. I really don't want to do that. I already sacrificed my happiness for my family and for him. I lived a fake life in front of others. But in the end I'm the loser.

[UK male 420]

@sai89 at end of day your family should respect your wishes, it is your life to lead as u see right, your not a loser, you just have had a detour in life, smile, you are free

[sai89]

@ScottishGuy thanks. I hope so. Thanks again. I'm completely in a distressed now, but good to talk to people who dosen't judge you.

[Scottish]

@sai89 you only have one life. You have to live it for you and not for other people. Don't waste the only life you have on people who aren't worthy of it. That way lies regret and pain. Anyone who wants you to remain in a coercive/abusive relationship isn't really thinking of you, that's ample justification to ignore them. Get yourself free

[UK male 420]

@sai89 the only person that can judge you is you

[sai89]

@Scottish thanks really.. I'm trying to do the correct thing for myself.