why do people call you mean if you right away dismiss someones love proposal?

[[[global:former-user]]]

i don't think thats being rude,i think you are actually doing a favour to that person by not dragging their heart and love and hurting them by being so kind and courteous.

i think u r mean if you act like u give a damn and make their heart skip beats everytime they see you but in reality you have got no interest in them.

what say?

[Lucifer]

Denial is the first step of a coping mechanism which later manifests to hatred and end with a understanding that they don't love you as you do.

[[[global:former-user]]]

@lucifer_ good thought but not related to my post:(

[khaleex]

maybe on the way you 'dismissed' that proposal?

[ODIN]

@khai said in why do people call you mean if you right away dismiss someones love proposal?:

maybe on the way you 'dismissed' that proposal?

Yah i agree with you.

[LastTrain94]

Way better to be straight up and make it clear that u are not interested instead of fishing them along, hell I think even slapping them because of the proposal would hurt less then making them think you have feelings and then telling them u dont later on. The faster you rip the band aid off the better. Fuck fake feelings.

[Bushmurry]

@khaleezi91 A lot of people have trouble accepting that there is nothing there, and cling to the hope that something will build if you give it a chance.

I was one of those people, don't let it bother you too much, they'll get over it once the hurt of rejection fades.

[[[global:former-user]]]

@bushmurry LOL IM NOT THE HEROINE IN THAT STORY