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Do you think it would be possible for you still be friends with an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
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Ummm....i dnt have an answer for this question tbh. What u think?
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If you both r took that decision of broke relationship of bf gf with permission of both of u then it's not a prob in having friendship.. but relationship broked by only caz of anyone of you then it's problematic thing..!
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A relationship usually ends in 2 ways :
Situation 1 : Both mutually decide that the relationship is over and you have no expectation from each other on something more than friends . It is possible for each of them to be friends as you have no expectation from each other something more then friendship and also there is a good understanding between each other .Here you CAN be friends with your ex .
Situation 2 : One of them decided to end the relationship for various reasons . I Believe this is the situation where you CANT be friends with your ex as one of them still do have feelings towards . This is a very bad idea to be friends as it will mess even more .If you are friends with her, you always will always be clinging on to her . So you need to shut the door completely .
2 people can only be happy if both have the same expectation , so first thing i would suggest is to be true to yourself ask yourself what you really want . Do you still have the feelings ? What do you want ? Once you have this figured out you can decide whether to be friends or not .
First figure out What you WANT, then do what you SHOULD do and never make any decision out of fear . -
Yeah sometimes possible an sometimes not it's depends on how your realations with her/him..
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@lucifer_ damn you right bro u always good in explaining things totally agree with you..!
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@lucifer_ best answer ever
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@ragnar-lothbrok yeah bruh agree
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@cutie-cat good for u bff
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@bushmurry said in Do you think it would be possible for you still be friends with an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?:
I get on well with most of my ex girlfriends, but not all. To remain friends while you watch someone you loved follow new relationships takes a lot of emotional maturity, and isn't always the best choice. Every relationship is individual, so every break-up will be as well.
I usually dont talk with my ex, but they keep on talking to me
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well, being honest, i think it is only possible IF the relationship ended in agreement and peace. otherwise, i wouldn't recommend even trying...
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If they're talking to you, but you're not talking to them, that's not being a friend. That's just letting them talk. There's nothing wrong with it, but most conversations are more fun going in two directions! ;)
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@ragnar-lothbrok yeah , coz my ex is still my friend :D
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I get on well with most of my ex girlfriends, but not all. To remain friends while you watch someone you loved follow new relationships takes a lot of emotional maturity, and isn't always the best choice. Every relationship is individual, so every break-up will be as well.