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I dont understand women
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I don't understand space either, doesn't stop me from gazing at it from far distances with high powered lenses...
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@m-y-s-t-e-r-y You study physics aswell???
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@Random0516 I see where you are coming from and it's probably because I am older is why I see things differently. That's my personal opinion but it's your choice. You seem to have a great head on your shoulders so I know you will be just fine. 😊
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@Gemini_Beta when do you think is the average age that you get a serious gf for life?
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@Random0516 Everyone is different but I think like 23. Should be done with school and the drinking years should have slowed down if not stopped. Not all but a lot of relationships that start when couples are young don't last in the long run.
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@Gemini_Beta Yeah you are right. What type of expirence should I have until then? And do you think girls or guys that approximatly my age when they in a relationship this ages dont think it will last?
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@Random0516 whatever experience you want. Of course at that age or younger people think they will be together forever. But that's just not reality. That's why it's a personal choice. 😊
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@Gemini_Beta Thanks!
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@Random0516 I'm especially digging the advice @Gemini_Beta has given for you. I'd give that some good consideration, and think that most of what I would say she has already covered.
One thing I have found though, not just with me but with most friends over the years, is that the relationships which tend to be "right", which last and work best, they usually happen unexpectedly - when the two people involved are perhaps both open to a relationship but not necessarily actively looking. When you take a step back and don't put such pressure on yourself to be in a relationship, things happen and fall into place naturally instead of risking feeling forced. Plus, a person who knows they are wholly complete and valid without a partner is instantly more attractive anyway... it's sort of a confidence thing, if you follow me.
I think what I'm saying is not to worry about it or overanalyse too much. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. Create opportunities if that is what you want, flow with life's river, and you'll do just fine. Best of luck to you.
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It's my considered opinion that understanding women will not guarantee a relationship with one of them to be stress free. Like has been pointed out women are individuals , together making a group. A group can seem to exhibit behaviors that may be assumed consistent to each individual but could never be understood as defining any one individual's thoughts and desires.
If you are one of those that feels dating women as a group is your goal maybe the right track is understanding women. If your wish is for a one on one relationship just make your one the best it can be and let the other one do the same. -
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@Random0516 ok. It's fine now but at the time I had a relationship with a very possessive man. So sorry to have bothered you.
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Best to avoid getting attached, at least permanently
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@Scottish we honestly do, though. the SIMPLEST THINGS will send us over the moon in rage or flooding the house w/ our tears 😭 lmao 🤣
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One thing my mom always told is never rush love or a relationship. People are always quick to jump into something and then reap the misery later on. Take it slowwww!!( in my Stevie voice)! Lol happy hunting’s!
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@Random0516 turth m respect and mostly of all when you like her like she is and accepting her with every failour because my mom told me womans are like flowers i have to handle them careful and i do since :) I am also male and no womans is the same some are really crazy but boys are also weird ..
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@Parisgirl1284 Im very sorry to hear.And dont worry you dont bother me :)
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@Eye I think although relationships are hard they are worth it
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@NessaSnaps Yeah you are probably right maybe I am rushing it for no reason but relationships are also very fun if its with the right person