I don't approve of my dad's relationship... I need advice!

  • My dad went on a single tour last month in Shenzhen, China held by A Foreign Affair. She met Liu and it seems like they’ve hit it off. That’s all great and I’m happy to see my dad happy but… Liu is only 4 years older than me! It almost makes me feel that my dad is dating a friend of mine.

    Liu is a good person. I’ve talked with her and I know she’s a genuine person who can definitely make my dad happy. I just can’t help but worry and feel dislike towards the idea that my dad is hitting it off with someone who could as easily have been one of my girlfriends.

    My worry is mostly the fact that she’s still young and she can definitely still find someone else. Someone younger than my dad too. Though, I’ve mentioned that I know she’s a good person but with her age, it’s still possible for her to still start anew with a man that can sway her feelings. While my dad is already at an age where someone who will stay with him definitely is better.

    I can’t decide for my dad nor say anything about his situation since he knows it better than anyone… but as his daughter, I have a free reign to worry. It’s not like my notions are baseless… or is it?

    I want my dad to be happy, if Liu is really someone who would make him happy then I’ll make sure to accept their relationship. At this moment, I can’t. I guess I should give her a chance since it’s roughly been a month since they met. I might even be overreacting, but I think I need to prepare myself just in case.

    I just need someone to make me feel assured about all of this. Any advice for me? I honestly don’t know what to do…

  • @sweetvia96 If your dad's happy than you should accept their relationship.

  • @sweetvia96 It is obviously you have the best interest of pops...maybe give it more time? Dad could be a cool/hip cat? Make certain it isn't about you before interfering...just sayin.

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  • Let him make his own mistakes. If he's happy then let him be happy. Best thing you could do is let them be and if things fall through, be that ear he can talk to and the mouth to talk him through it. Chances are, if you said anything to him he wouldn't listen anyways because a good man (which he seems to be from what you said) thinks with his heart. His heart loves you and her so that's what he's going to follow. Just hang out and try to build a relationship with her as time goes by. If your dads with a woman, even if she's young, you still wanna have a good relationship with that woman to. That's better than your dad being with someone you can't get along with.

  • Talk to your dad first.He knows her best.Try to figure out how she is by hanging with her more.She does not need to be a very good person, all she must be is loyal to your dad.If she is trying to take advantage or something, tell your dad first.If he doesnt listen and you are confident about your opinion try to expose her or tell her that you know about her.Hope this helps.Best of luck.Wish you the best.

  • @dirkdigglar my dad IS Hippie. I love him so much and I don't want him to get hurt! It's just that this is unacceptable. You guys know how that feels!

  • @sweetvia96 I’m am a much older man replying to you.
    1st, let dad have some space and enjoy his new found friend.
    2nd, has the word marriage been used? If not, use the time to get better acquainted with the girl. Many younger women truly want to be with older guys. If they do talk marriage, sit down to discuss with both of them, and be upfront & honest about your feelings.
    Most of all, always support dad.
    Good Luck to all!!

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