• Hi everyone. Some people here might know me. I recently went through a breakup and yeah i know it is just a very minor setback in such a huge life. But what hurted me then was that I never get the reason of breakup even though I am a nice guy and with all good guys stuff.
    Now some people know me the guy who asks if they are horny. Yes but i think it was just an attempt to ask for validation. Recently, so many girls rejected me just for my looks. They didnt say so but i know. If so many just go away the moment they see me, i get the idea. I dont know what to do. When did a guy's face or looks started mattering so much? I feel so fed up. Its not like i can change my looks. But are girls really so shallow or is it just the humankind? I hope none. Let me know

  • Honestly, I don't think it's your looks. I don't know what you look like and looks are a factor in dating for sure, but it's smaller than you may expect. At least with people you should want to be in a relationship with. I think it might be because you are fed up with things atm. I've always found that very easy to sense in guys, even when just meeting someone, they treat you differently. the body language is different etc. I've dated prettier and less pretty guys but rejected everybody who seemed to think similar to this straight on.
    Now I don't know why your last relationship ended. But apparently, she didn't think you two fit together properly. That is not necesarily your or her fault. Just means you gotta find someone who is better suited for you.

  • @bluepie No. I am not fed up with thing like you are sensing. But anyway thanks.

  • If not that's good, I was replying to the bit where you say yourself that you were fed up as well as the part where you start to wonder if it's your looks. Not really sensing anything, that's easy in person, not so much in text.

  • @bluepie hmu in dm. Lets talk

  • its not always about the looks, girls look for more than just that. breakups aren't good and they really really suck, but one day you'll be okay again and love who you are. As long as you love yourself, you won't need anybody's opinion at all. Most girls think all a guy wants is sex & sometimes that may be true, but as long as a guy proves he really cares girls will start to realize it but for us girls its hard to tell when a guy actually likes us or just wants to have sex and use our bodies. you will get better ! whenever you say girls only care ab looks, thats not always the case just like guys. but i hope you get better soon & im sorry ab your breakup.

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  • @Alexie-19 what?

  • @Shawn-q Looks have always been a factor, some people will accept you looking below average, but there's always a limit. I don't know you, but if you really are just that ugly, then damn. I feel bad for people who end up like that. Only thing to save them is plastic surgery.

  • @gianna_16 breakup is the best thing in the world that has ever happened to me

  • @Vitocorleone Im glad, sometimes they are good. For most people they aren't unless it was a toxic relationship or something like that

  • I dont think it was your looks, it is not looks, it is the person inside, you might not have been the one she needed atm. there is someone for everyone, never think less of yourself, there is someone for everyone, sometimes takes a while, whenever you stop looking it comes.

  • @Shawn-q I could ask you to stay,
    But there's really nothing left to say.

    This breakup has been emotional and long,
    But I know I'm strong.

    I guess we naturally grew apart,
    But it still hurts in my heart.

    We went days without speaking or sending a text,
    And I could only wonder what was next.

    There were times we couldn't look each other in the eye.
    How did we get this far, and why did something so special have to die?

    As I write this, memories flood me.
    They remind of all we used to be.

    Even when things were bad, I never thought this relationship would end.
    Our broken hearts I thought we could mend.

    Now you've left without a goodbye.
    I've got no energy to even cry.

    I knew it was over when we started doing things on our own.
    You got so distant and I was alone.

    I tried getting you to notice that I was still there,
    But you made up your mind and didn't care.

    There are many nights when you're all that's on my mind.
    I hope happiness is what you find.

    There are days when I just can't get out of bed.
    But "try" is what you always said.

    So every day I try to put on a smile.
    Even if it's not a real one for a while.

    We were together for so many years, so do you ever shed tears?
    I know I've got to let you go,

    And someday I will,
    But mixed emotions are what I feel.

    We both made our fair share of mistakes.
    It feels like I'm drowning in sadness, anger, and resentment, all in different lakes.

    I honestly wish you nothing but the best
    As my strength and endurance is put to the test.

  • @Shawn-q don't worry mate just go with it 😊😊

  • @gianna_16 yeahh

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