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Advice needed for something important
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Hello guys. This is my first ever post and I'm creating it because I really need sound advice on something. The reason is, I'm really sad. Miserable. My usual optimistic self is down in the drain right now. Something recently happened to me with a TWS user (someone who shall remain nameless). We used to be such good friends but suddenly, that person doesn't trust me anymore, even though I've tried a hundred times to be loyal to this person. And now since my attempts have failed and I've seemingly lost that person's friendship, I'm down in the dumps.
Therefore, I need advice on how to be happy again. How can I lift my mood up? Something which can prevent my day from getting worse? Or, how to win this person back?
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@Eve12 your an amazing person, their are plenty of friends that you made in here still cares about you. You help people when they are feeling down. All of us know that you're not a bad person. Try to convince nameless if his still in global that you didn't do anything wrong, don't give up on anything even if it is about friendship, and I know 100% that you will be back as friends, just don't be sad, think about positive vibes, don't think about negative vibes.
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@Zzz-24 thank you, Zzz. Means a lot 🤧💞
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@Eve12 np, your a wonderful person, im always here fro you, no matter what happens.
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I can help 🙂
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Honestly girl, just realise that if you did all you could, then its not your fault. I have had this happen and frankly, it sucks. Big time. But keep your chin up and keep smiling girlie cause, you are gold. Solid gold. So time to treat yourself like it.:blue_heart:
“The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it…” – Nicholas Sparks.
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@AllAboutGay okay 😕
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@Vanie Noted, Vanie. Thank you ❤️
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@Oblivion you're right. Channeling emotions into writing always helps. Thank you 😊😊
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@Kaneki-kun Well, thanks for your help :)
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@Sij thanks!! 😄
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@Eve12 said in Advice needed for something important:
@Kaneki-kun Well, thanks for your help :)
You're better now?
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@Kaneki-kun Yeah I actually am. Thanks for asking 😊
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@Eve12 any time girl <3
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@Eve12 Sure!
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Honestly its tough to loose a friend, if it isn't that friendship wasn't worth it. May be the context as to how you lost the trust makes it feel worse. Don't rush to normalize friendship, as human beings we may prefer to process things slowly. Apologise, then give them space as you reflect on yourself, why is their friendship important? Do they perceive your friendship with the same importance ? What will you be without that friendship, may be are there other things in your life stopped, may be its time to attend to them. If you're truly friends, you'll surely patch up once the dust settles.
The murkier the waters, the greater the depth...don't test if you're not ready!
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Suppose that you were sitting down at this table. The napkins are in front of you, which napkin would you take? The one on your ‘left’? Or the one on your ‘right’? The one on your left side? Or the one on your right side? Usually you would take the one on your left side. That is ‘correct’ too. But in a larger sense on society, that is wrong. Perhaps I could even substitute ‘society’ with the ‘Universe’. The correct answer is that ‘It is determined by the one who takes his or her own napkin first.’ …Yes? If the first one takes the napkin to their right, then there’s no choice but for others to also take the ‘right’ napkin. The same goes for the left. Everyone else will take the napkin to their left, because they have no other option. This is ‘society’… Who are the ones that determine the price of land first? There must have been someone who determined the value of money, first. The size of the rails on a train track? The magnitude of electricity? Laws and Regulations? Who was the first to determine these things? Did we all do it, because this is a Republic? Or was it Arbitrary? NO! The one who took the napkin first determined all of these things! The rules of this world are determined by that same principle of ‘right or left?’! In a Society like this table, a state of equilibrium, once one makes the first move, everyone must follow! In every era, this World has been operating by this napkin principle. And the one who ‘takes the napkin first’ must be someone who is respected by all. It’s not that anyone can fulfill this role… Those that are despotic or unworthy will be scorned. And those are the ‘losers’. In the case of this table, the ‘eldest’ or the ‘Master of the party’ will take the napkin first… Because everyone ‘respects’ those individuals.
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