this is a ...disturbing topic, care to shed some background? any time of violence or abuse is not tolerated here or in person
🤦What do you do when.....
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How do you help/assist/save someone from being toxic or trigger you??
I mean if you know someone who youve have a certain degree of consideration for and then out of nowhere they just burst out being toxic and triggering you. How do you go about it? Damn! Like what's the right procedure or way to go about it to not ruin your friendship??
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I,ll say If somebody ruin my friendship it gonna be a problem and by the way it is too many of fakes friend out here I,ll go about it is that I really don,t even care anymore like period.
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@jade-brown Part of the answer is in understanding the question Jane. I spoke about toxins and triggers not ruining a friendship.
Ig another way to ask my question is "what do you do when you're being triggered by someone you have a certain degree of consideration for?"
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@Kaneki-kun I don,t know
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@Kaneki-kun if your friend is being toxic towards you, it's best just to tell them that their behavior is wrong and is ruining the friendship. If your friend is a sensible person, they'll listen 😛
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@Kaneki-kun I just come up to the person and say it. the person might not like it, but if it doesn't understand, then you are better off losing that kind of inconsiderate friend anyway.
You gotta weed out the bad ones that always find their way into your social life. better to have one good friend than ten crappy ones.
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@DIVine hahaha you're keeping it as simple as life is a binary 😂😂
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I think you must tell him/or that person some joke....and then ignore their laugh or comment...might help, maybe lol
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@ArthurF hahaha that's also an option. Thanks. Where you from Arthur?
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@AllAboutGay haha no thanks lol
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@Kaneki-kun said in 🤦What do you do when.....:
How do you help/assist/save someone from being toxic or trigger you??
I mean if you know someone who youve have a certain degree of consideration for and then out of nowhere they just burst out being toxic and triggering you. How do you go about it? Damn! Like what's the right procedure or way to go about it to not ruin your friendship??
Depends on what you consider toxic really and triggering really... I mean some people think there is "toxic masculinity" and they tend to be "triggered" by literally anything... So yeah... I don't like those words really. But maybe what you mean by them is not what those ideologues have in mind...
Well you might want to figure out why they do it. There might be many reasons. I think one thing that happens really often, is that people just don't really understand something, and thus they act the way they act. Then you might want to figure out a way for them to understand your reality, at least a bit, give them insight...
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I have a tendency to put my hands on toxic people in real life but I try to avoid this because God knows I have better things to do than serve a jail sentence for attempted murder.
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@CrowHunter really was this you 😆😂😂😂??
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@Kaneki-kun no, a) I don't talk to people about "sexy" b) don't date c) by the time I'm done, the authorities would already frisk and lock me up.
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@CrowHunter Lol you know it's just a joke right?