@onyx_the_kitten
An age difference in a relationship shouldn't mean a thing. Especially not during the early stages, because getting paranoid about your partner being older or younger will inevitably change your perception of their personality and character, the things you should ultimately be looking for the most when you initially meet someone. Can somebody's age really affect who they are? I mean yeah, you're a little older, you're a little wiser maybe, but if you have a warm heart and a caring personality, why should you be ignored or unacknowledged simply for the year you were born in? A good person, or a compatibilty, will always be there regardless of how old you are.
You can't forge your feelings based on somebody's age, and you sure as hell can't help who you fall in love with. It shouldn't be enough to hear a number and be scared away without considering the possibilities of something much greater that could develop, if given a chance. Sure, it can be overwhelming sometimes to think about your life in a way that means you might have a difference in knowledge or experience with your partner, but in the end you'd have found somebody you want and you can imagine a life with. Why sacrifice that, and potentially ruin any chances you have with somebody who genuinely needs to be with you for the sake of reputation or image? Like I said, regardless of the complications or repercussions of your feelings, you can't help who you fall in love with. And if you're sure your feelings are right, and you'd be willing to take a chance on somebody, do it. Make sure when you do find the opportunity, you don't push it away over something minor like age because you could end up losing a lot more than you anticipated you would be losing. And the main problem is, you can't always find it again.
You should wait a while longer to get married. You may think you are really in love, but thats what I thought when I met my daughters father when I was 16. Now Im 20, and my daughter is 4 months old, and I dont want to be with him anymore. Time really does change things. I thought at that age, that that wasnt true. But it really does. Wait a while and see, and if in a few years even if its as few as 2 or 3 maybe 4, then go for it. Untill then though, Id suggest waiting. You dont want what happened to me to happen to you. I love my daughter, but not her father. And now, no matter what, Im connected to him through her forever. Just wait a while, a few years at least, and if youre still together then, then go for it. Untill then, Id wait. Good luck.
If you know in your heart you love each other and you are positive you want to spend the rest of your life with him...wait...if youre going to spend the rest of your lives together what is your rush? If your meant for each other youll last. Good Luck.
Directed to Kristin... If you think you have to prove to your mother that you are mature enough to get married that alone shows immaturity. You need to be who you are not how someone tells you to act to get what you want. Be patiant your mother probably knows you are a mature person, she may just not want to lose her little girl. Everyone has differant beliefs and whatever your mothers are for why she doesnt want you to get married you should respect.
I am a sixteen year old girl and engaged to an eighteen year old, weve been together for a year. My parents dont agree of our engagment and that is fine with us. We know we will be together so we can wait. If you really love someone what is the rush. Why should you tarnish your relationship with your mother (father, parents) For something that if true will happen anyway.I used to have a whole differant view on this but then I realized what I had and not so much what I want.
@alexisarp I'd talk to you, buf the default settings fake it so you have to follow ppl before they can msg you so I that's on change taht either that or follow me
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