Would you let your best friend date your EX?

[cjko]

a BIG question for everyone.. would you? and why ?

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Ofcourse.
If they like each other then who the heck are we to stop them.
I would let my bestie face the wrath of my ex himself. He is responsible for the journey that he is about to undertake.

[cjko]

@Wolfie_11 are you really her/his best friend? you want him/her to suffer too? Even if you can prevent her/him from taking the same path you took? yOU will just let your best friend got hurt ?

[MAUI]

Kill them with kindness i would say.

[cjko]

@MAUI hahah cool. That's my signature too

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
As I said, he has the right to choose his partner. Maybe something that didn’t click between me and my ex, maybe my best friend can give her that. Maybe they’re the one who are meant for each other and I was just a messenger, a mode to make them meet each other.

[What is this]

@cjko No best friend would do such thing, in my opinion

[cjko]

@Wolfie_11 said in Would you let your best friend date your EX?:

@cjko
As I said, he has the right to choose his partner. Maybe something that didn’t click between me and my ex, maybe my best friend can give her that. Maybe they’re the one who are meant for each other and I was just a messenger, a mode to make them meet each other.

It's a rare case if that EX of yours is worth to date. In the first place, why is your relationship with your EX failed ? If it is because of you, that would have a tiny chance..

[cjko]

@What-is-this I agree. Respecting your best friend's feeling is the key

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Rare case? I have seen my ‘same’ ex dwell and gel together and develop deep feelings for so many of my friends lol.
On a serious note, its not rare actually. Everyone is someone’s ex at some point of life. Doesn’t mean they are bad or you’re bad, its just that it didn’t work out.

[Pamela]

Sure, who am I not to allow two people who love each other to be together?
From the moment my boyfriend stops being my boyfriend, his management of his love life and sexuality is no longer my concern.
As for my best friend, as long as she remains loyal and doesn´t allow her relationship to get in the way of our friendship, I don´t see a major problem.

[cjko]

@Wolfie_11 your best friend's ex is a lot different with anyone's ex

[MAUI]

Ladies come and goes, learning is constantly. Just dont be afraid to love. Defensive mechanism tends to push females away because it tells my brain i dont wanna go through the same pain . But i analyze. And stay true.

[cjko]

@Captain said in Would you let your best friend date your EX?:

Sure, who am I not to allow two people who love each other to be together?
From the moment my boyfriend stops being my boyfriend, his management of his love life and sexuality is no longer my concern.
As for my best friend, as long as she remains loyal and doesn´t allow her relationship to get in the way of our friendship, I don´t see a major problem.

you are entitled for that opinion. Are you sure nothing will change with you and your bst friend if s/he started to get intimate with your ex?

[cjko]

@MAUI stay safe,, falling in love is a trap! haha

[MAUI]

And dying alone and unloved what will my legacy be.

[INFINITY]

If he's a good guy.

[cjko]

@MAUI haha why ?

[cjko]

@INFINITY yeah.. is there a chance if he is ?

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Well sure is.
But I would still date my guy bestie’s ex, if the opportunity so arises and our minds think alike and the heart races and so on and so forth. It would be awkward at first, but then everyone should effing move on.