Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?
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@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
a sensible matter
"i can write a thesis on how stupid crybabys and dramatic bitches are"
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@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
can
Everyone can, doesn't mean they will bring up something good.
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@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
can
Everyone can, doesn't mean they will bring up something good.
He shoots!
He scores!!
@Mr-H Wins!!!
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@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
can
Everyone can, doesn't mean they will bring up something good.
my intention was clear...to make a point(which 9/10 people will disagree to)
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@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
This post is beautiful :heart:
Thanks for not being a dramatic bitch @im-a-bae
Love you lol.dramatic? me? never!! :joy:
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@im-a-bae said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
This post is beautiful :heart:
Thanks for not being a dramatic bitch @im-a-bae
Love you lol.dramatic? me? never!! :joy:
Thank god!
One more thing:
Are you facing any problems in life or TWS?
If yes make a post!
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@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@im-a-bae said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
This post is beautiful :heart:
Thanks for not being a dramatic bitch @im-a-bae
Love you lol.dramatic? me? never!! :joy:
Thank god!
One more thing:
Are you facing any problems in life or TWS?
If yes make a post!
I'll upvote ;)sounds like a commercial but okay whatevs :joy:
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Trust and Caring is most necessary thing about friendship.
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@im-a-bae it has to be honesty as the most valuable commodity in any friendship. If you can't rely on your best friend to tell you the truth who do you rely on? It might not be what you always want to hear but the chances are they are just expressing your own doubts.
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@sup I hope one day you will write this article about crybabies and dramas..I would love to read and just like you I'm out too..hehe
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@im-a-bae our madness , fun honesty ,love and many more
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@wet-teri respect