I cheated on her. Should I tell her?
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I am engaged to my Thai woman for a year now and there’s really nothing I could criticize about her. She is very loyal, loving and caring--I couldn’t ask for more. However, temptations are always there waiting for someone to devour. The sad thing is I gave in. I agreed to do sensual things with my new neighbor who’s so seductive and pretty. Fortunately, I was conscience-stricken and I promised to myself that I wouldn’t cheat again. I exerted a lot of efforts to my fiance in order to lessen the guilt that’s haunting me. Now, should I tell her about what I’ve done to put my heart at peace or should I just remain silent? I can’t afford to lose her. Please help me on this. Thanks!
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@imnervous30: its either you slap her with the truth,or embrace her with a lie..then suffer the consequences..
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@imnervous30 welcome,hope for the best..
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@imnervous30 Here's the thing. If you cheated on her then you are not 100% invested in the relationship. If you loved her then you wouldn't have done it. Maybe you think that what you feel for her is love but if you also felt the need to go behind her back and cheat on her then maybe you guys are missing something important. I would think really carefully about this. Telling her means you will most likely loose her. Even if it's not imediate it will happen. She will be plagued by doubts. She'll be wondering why she wasn't good enough or what was so bad about her that you would cheat. Anytime you have to stay late at work or want to go out with friends she will always be wondering. I'm sure your not a bad person and you want the best for her. You've out her in a really crappy situation though. my advice is tell her and end your relationship so she can be happy with someone she trusts and won't be in a broken relationship. That's whats gonna be best for her and you, because if you cheated then maybe your not ready to be in a committed relationship.
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@danyl-marshall-dowe so they should go to their girlfriends if they need something
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@danyl-marshall-dowe said in I cheated on her. Should I tell her?:
@elianaqueen the thing is a lot of guys genuinely cant't control their physical urges.
Yep, that’s when you go fap in your room like the pathetic sonovabitch that can’t control himself
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@wtfjudith exactly
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Dude, I really need your serious advice about this problem of mine if you wear me what you can do?
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@imnervous30 Oh man, that's messed up. I really don't understand why people cheat. Just like you said, you can't afford to lose her but why are you committing that kind of mistake? I don't know man but they said, "You can't judge the person or the entire relationship over one mistake." I somehow believe on that maybe she is too. So yeah, tell her the truth and give her a strong assurance that you won't do it again.
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@imnervous30 sure
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@imnervous30 dont say anything to her if she is happy now--but try to give all ur heart to her and dont cheat again
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@imnervous30 If it happened just once, I think there's no need to tell her because I'm sure she will break up with you. Just be sure that you won't do it anymore because if you do, it means you don't love her . Cheating is a choice and not an accident.
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@vahid-0 said in I cheated on her. Should I tell her?:
@imnervous30 dont say anything to her if she is happy now--but try no you don't tell to give all ur heart to her and docheat again
. No don't tell her it's ok if you get aroused just looking ur just getting off it's fine
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you should tell her everything and promise her you dont do it again. dont lie to her. love her with all your heart.
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Tell her. If she finds out you cheated and lied about it...
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@imnervous30 you should die for doing that tbh lmao
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@inseekayumi31 Thanks for your advice. I need a lot of courage.
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@vahid-0 Yes,,, I will never cheat again to her. I am conscience-stricken.
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@hurleyking Thanks for this. I will put this in mind.
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@kittypie Yes, I will. Thanks!
