@TRain yes I have been betrayed by all of my ex's. I have been in all long relationships too, my last relationship I sacrificed a lot and he had a lot of issues that I dealt with and worked out to make it work and he still cheated on me. I don't think my boyfriend now would cheat, but I also don't think he has been approached by someone who wanted to just sleep with him either. So I am curious to know if he was approached if he would take the opportunity. The internet in a way has ruined it for a lot of realationships. It's easy for a person to just get on the internet and become aroused by someone else, it's hard to find that line to what is cheating.

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We have a perfect relationship otherwise. I guess I have trust issues. I have caught him msg a women a long time ago on Snapchat and told him I didn't like it and he stopped, but I wonder if he was persuaded would he do it again.

We have a perfect relationship otherwise. I guess I have trust issues. I have caught him msg a women a long time ago on Snapchat and told him I didn't like it and he stopped, but I wonder if he was persuaded would he do it again.

I'd like to find someone who would be willing to pretend to be interested in my boyfriend to see if he would chat on me. I would return the favor as well. Thoughts??

This is a tough one. I have been in this situation and my first instinct was "tell them" but when I told the person she ended up calling me a lier and I lost a good friend over it. Years later she ended up in a divorce because she finally caught him herself. I personally would not do this to someone who told me my boyfriend was cheating. I'd investigate it and find out if he was infact cheating and catch him red-handed. So maybe just start a conversation with your friend on what they would do if they were confronted by someone who thought they where cheating before coming out and just saying it happened. Good luck.

I'm not, but I suspect my boyfriend of doing this and I agree it is cheating.

My boyfriend watches a lot of porn, and he don't show interest in having sex with me hardly at all. I have talked to him about it but he says he is into only me and comes up with excuses on why he don't want to have sex with me, but he jerks off everyday so I know it's not a health problem. Looking for advise to chat about it with someone.