Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?

[Murdagangshit]

but its mostly effort

[Lurker]

@ragnar

A combination of alot of factors. I like to think about how "FATE" can lead to everything but that is a total complete bs. If you just sit at home or avoid ppl all together, your fate is pretty much set in stone.
You need effort, fate and luck, alot of luck to find that special someone that is in the same boat as you.

[chicken.nugget]

@ragnar 50:50 but if they meant to be together then they will be, even without much effort. Conversely, if they are not made for each other they couldn't make it even with a lot of effort, thats called fate.

[Younis]

I believe that love is Fate more than effort

[smhsk81]

@ragnar Great question. From my experience, always feels like fate at first but definitely evolves into effort as time goes on

[smhsk81]

i bet if you ask those who think it's more fate than effort what there longest relationship they have had is, not a single one will have been in a serious relationship for more than 5 years.. it always feels like fate at first, especially with all the movies out there.. after several years, people change and the true test sets in. of course this will not be the case 100% of the time, but much closer to it than not.

[smhsk81]

@chicken-nugget sounds to me like you don't believe you have the ability to control your own fate. so yes, that will make you at the mercy of it. realizing you can actually control your own fate by the decisions you make, now that takes effort and intention which is not for the faint of heart

[sup]

@smhsk81 You are wise!

[eri]

@ragnar
I have no experience in love, ever. But while seeing my parents I think both the factors are included. Fate lead them to meet one another but the effort they exerted was the reason that made their relationship stronger and last for 14 years.

[ODIN]

@smhsk81 word!

[ODIN]

@eri thats sweet, , same to my parents, theyve been together for 27yrs now

[eri]

@ragnar wow, 27 years!! Twice the years of my parents lololol. I wish them the best!!

[ODIN]

@eri thank you, lol. Im prayin to have such kind of love lmao. It needs effort

[Mak]

@ragnar haha all the best Bro!!!!! May ya get a good love!!!

[eri]

@ragnar I wish you luck on finding that kind of love in thee harsh world.

[ODIN]

@makiboy

[ODIN]

@eri ouch, that hurts. Its kinda hard to find somethin good in harsh world like this but i believe even lucifer was an angel before. People change , we all might find that special one through fate and effort

[Mak]

@eri the whole world isn't harsh i hope so ..there are good ppl too!!!!

[eri]

@ragnar AMEN but, yeah, I ain't finding love yet (lololol)

I'm wayyyyyy too young for that, and my Dad's strict af when it comes to relationshits

[eri]

@makiboy I know there are good people, for example, my friends!! But let's face it, the world is really harsh!