Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?

[Stranger_Danger]

Love is a matter of fate coupled with choice & Effort.

We meet a lot of people throughout our lifespan and befriend many but only few of them arouse some kind of special and a somewhat strange feelings in our heart which we call LOVE.

So meeting someone is fate ,
but
to feel love for someone is your choice ,
&
Developing that fledgling attraction into Everlasting love takes Effort.

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Being there for someone in need ,making them laugh ,making them smile even when you're in pain

..those things dont happen automatically ,we take conscious decisions ,we decide our course of action ,

some flee ,some stay ...not all are prepared to sacrifice
& yet sacrifice is the basis of love.

...for those who do , through the lovers efforts ...

Upon the fertile ground ,Love blossoms.
Defying a cruel world & a sea of uncertainty they rise up.

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Simple love, kindness and understanding.
The virtues that repairs the world with gentle embrace.

To me ,there is no greater treasure in this world. ️

[chicken.nugget]

@stranger_danger Perfect

[Sammy]

@ragnar
Its both!
Its a process.
Its written that you will meet your lover. Fate plays its role.
You meet the person, catch feelings for them, embrace them!
Then there are differences in opinions, there are misunderstandings, arguements and fights etc!
So you need to put efforts(everytime) to get back to your lovely relationship!
Imagine a ship in the ocean... At times there are high tides .. at times it sails smoothly because of low tide! Its goal is to reach the shore!
Likewise the goal in relationship is to make it till the end together!
️

[ODIN]

@sammy this is just....

[US poet]

@ragnar it's honestly both. It's fate that you meet someone, but it's effort to hold your relationship together. Everything takes work, and it only falls apart if someone lets it, and sometimes you get hate, when you did nothing at all, you just gotta keep moving on.

[ODIN]

@us-poet said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@ragnar it's honestly both. It's fate that you meet someone, but it's effort to hold your relationship together. Everything takes work, and it only falls apart if someone lets it, and sometimes you get hate, when you did nothing at all, you just gotta keep moving on.

Dam, i sometimes get hate when i do nothing at all , sometimes i just tryna be good, care for somebody and they tryna run away from me

[[[global:former-user]]]

@ragnar for me, love is a fate when you suddenly meet the person but it is an effort when you keep in touch and make that person to be yours. But it will not be possible if there is no commitment, because love needs commitment.
Dude, now is your turn to make @im-a-bae as your gf perfect and happy ending for both of you

[WtfJudith]

@mr-h said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@ragnar

A combination of alot of factors. I like to think about how "FATE" can lead to everything but that is a total complete bs. If you just sit at home or avoid ppl all together, your fate is pretty much set in stone.
You need effort, fate and luck, alot of luck to find that special someone that is in the same boat as you.

first post of yours not about DM peeps or porn, impressive

[Lurker]

@wtfjudith said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@mr-h said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@ragnar

A combination of alot of factors. I like to think about how "FATE" can lead to everything but that is a total complete bs. If you just sit at home or avoid ppl all together, your fate is pretty much set in stone.
You need effort, fate and luck, alot of luck to find that special someone that is in the same boat as you.

first post of yours not about DM peeps or porn, impressive

Should I dig some of yours?

[WtfJudith]

@mr-h said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@wtfjudith said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@mr-h said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@ragnar

A combination of alot of factors. I like to think about how "FATE" can lead to everything but that is a total complete bs. If you just sit at home or avoid ppl all together, your fate is pretty much set in stone.
You need effort, fate and luck, alot of luck to find that special someone that is in the same boat as you.

first post of yours not about DM peeps or porn, impressive

Should I dig some of yours?

[Lurker]

@wtfjudith said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@mr-h said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@wtfjudith said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@mr-h said in Do you think LOVE is more of the FATE or EFFORT?:

@ragnar

A combination of alot of factors. I like to think about how "FATE" can lead to everything but that is a total complete bs. If you just sit at home or avoid ppl all together, your fate is pretty much set in stone.
You need effort, fate and luck, alot of luck to find that special someone that is in the same boat as you.

first post of yours not about DM peeps or porn, impressive

Should I dig some of yours?

Are you caressing my a cock?

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It's fate.If it's in store for you, you'll surely have it.I'm not sure if I'm correct....Just saying from personal experience.