Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Are you a good friend? Why or why not?
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I'd personally like to think I'm a good friend, but there are times where I feel like I could be better. I'm trying to be there for all of them, but things are complicated sometimes..
What about you?
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I think I'm a horrible friend but some people seem to like me so idk
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@a-p well if people like you you must be doing something right!
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yea I guess
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@wtfjudith I believe I'm a good friend. I am very loyal & I always help out emotionally or financially 😊
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@zeus-_ i don't doubt it at all Zeus :))
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@wtfjudith I think I am. To me, loyalty is the highest compliment you can pay anyone when you're friends with them. And my experiences in life so far show me that I'm quite loyal to those I value. Loyalty here includes keeping one's word, reliability, going to extreme lengths to save someone else's neck, take the blame for someone else's wrong doing, having their back when they need it and most important of all - valuing the trust they have in me and vice versa.
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Why did you have to contemplate? It doesn't concern you. Your friends have to decide whether you are or not. You can be the best of yourself and still fail to win over someone. People have their own bias for judging others. There's no universal "good friend type". Just be you and be nice to everyone. Rest is up to them. Don't worry about something that's not up to you in the first place.
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@wtfjudith I am the best friend you could ever have. But in order to be my friend, you have to be a special fuck
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I like to think I'm a good friend because I try my best to listen to your problems and be there for you and help you out emotionally. I'm not perfect though, I do think I can do better.
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No I fucked up too many times to be seen as a good friend
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@layla your cat is so sexy, follow me so we can share pics
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@nouna I'll share nudes of my dog if you're into zoophilia 😂
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@wtfjudith friend is someone that always be there when they need, have a pure intention, wtching the from the shadow, and have to fully accepting your friend
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@wtfjudith said in Are you a good friend? Why or why not?:
I'd personally like to think I'm a good friend, but there are times where I feel like I could be better. I'm trying to be there for all of them, but things are complicated sometimes..
What about you?
It is an old post but i know you are a good human, FOR YOUR DOGGOS ONLY 😭 NOT FOR ME
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wow very old post from 2 months ago. sweet.
yeah judy i can be your good friend. sometimes we insult each other for fun.
G.A im glad you read this stuff toobtw, layla's old comment down below hehehehehe
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@im-bored layla will be back if she has enough courage and she could say apologizing words. If she read this, may be wherever she is, she understands that @WtfJudith missed her. Hell Yea, everybody makes mistakes, but thats how maturity comes and you will be a good mature human after all of sudden.
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@wtfjudith who knows, it's just relative.
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@g-a She was just a kid and she made a mistake. She was exposed in a terrible way, and the harshness of the criticisms she received doesn't correspond to the magnitude of her error. We also owe her an apology. And anyway, I don't see the need to bring this topic back again.
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@shutup well i am just saying, "Girl, just be back and we wait for you @layla " i guess.