Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Why do people think you racist if you find yourself more attracted to a race?
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I’m like just cause I’m attracted by a few black guys don’t mean I’m racist toward white guys..
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Are you you're so black or white girl??
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@sarah whatdya mean by that lol?
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@justhere Because people fucking suck, and are easily offended wussies, that's why! :D
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@blooddrunk True in some cases but it’s 2018 people gotta chill
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girl I wonder the same
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@JustHere People say all kinds of mean things to put others down, don't let it get to you!
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@belethor yeah Bel, i have met.a lot of.people like it down the years. My theory is they aren't happy so they don't want anyone else to be either. It escapes them that they would be better off using their energy to improve their own situation than spoil someone else's
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@Scottish I couldn't agree more man, hate breeds hate! Life is too short and too amazing to spend it all on hating other people based on traits that they didn't get to choose when they were born 🙃
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@belethor
I m totally agree with you that racism is absolutely harmful example of human relations. For me it's an excellent demonstration of vile and rotten nature of people inner essence.
Even if we, for a moment, move away our emotions and empathy, we will see that racism is completely irrational phenomenon based on illogical ideas of superiority certain groups of people.
Every single person, no matter what colour of skin he/she has has, what language speak and where he/she lives, has his/her potential of causing harm to the surroundings.
If we are already dark inside, why should we let our darkness crawl to the surface and, as a result, confront each other adding more chaos and injustice to our incorrigible and pathetic setting called World. -
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