• @greentealover well, you know what, in the present scenario, people find looks more important than a person's character. looks don't matter, TOTALLY WRONG. but we all fall in love with a person's inner beauty. such people who compare people are nothing but a piece of shit. one thing i learned in my life, is that, never EVER look down upon yourself. Or the world will leave no stone unturned to bring you down. always remember, you are beautiful in your own way. even if you're sad, chin up, and fake a smile. nobody cares girl. anyways, if you feel depressed and wanna talk to a friend, i am always here!

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    you should try making some nice friends here, like @vrinda here is the sweetest person you can find, increase the number of positive people in you life, and when that is far more than the negative ones, you will be fine ;)


  • @greentealover
    Hi dear! It's good that you acknowledge the differences between you and your sister. That's very brave of you. Not everyone can find peace when they are constantly being compared and continuously being haunted by people and their annoying mumbling just on the basis of outer appearance. It's really hard to ignore them, that's very true.

    I could just try to understand how you feel and in reality, it may be even much more to you. But for last 20 years you have maintained your composure and i would suggest not to let go of it now. You have been very brave all this years and I wish you remain so. If nothing else, believe that you are stronger than you were yesterday. And when it comes to your confidence..... there are two ways to deal with it.
    First I don't give a F..K attitude!!
    Just ignore the world and live your own way. It's easy to say but hard to do as some point of time, it may pinch you.
    Second Don't F..K with me attitude!!
    This is what I would do if I was at your place. I would challenge all those ill talkers and overcome all my hurdles. I would workout, become athletic, play sports, and not compromise on food either. It would take some time, but eventually this becomes a habit. And once you get the hang of it, believe you in me, things will improves and your confidence will reach the sky.

    But again, u need to have dedication and will to put in efforts. Love yourself and respect yourself. Worship your body and mind. Your soul will always be happy.

    I hope I made some sense.😌 . If you think I said something wrong then I am sorry. I may not understand your situation completely.
    Be happy and keep smiling.


  • @vrinda hey! you dont know how happy i am to get your reply. Well i always fake a smile when im in front of them, but then tears will come out when im alone. But i'll try your advice, thanks! love


  • @jynextremist the thing is there are waaay more positive people on the internet (like you) rather than in reality around me


  • @greentealover be patient, you will find them ;)


  • @nik-sub-blz you did make sense. And you just made my day, thank you :) uh well the thing is im gonna do anything for myself, not to impress others. But yea im trying my best to keep my body, soul and mind healthy and love myself more everyday. Thank you! x


  • @greentealover impressive and i doubt if u aint worth anything, as for whats written just mind blowing. keep it up

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    Well if everyone compared you with your sister, go faraway from your sister.. and don't befriend with those who bullied you, go somewhere and try finding a new friend.. maybe someday you can found a best friend who will hear you and accept you as it is.


  • @greentealover I didn't even read what you post but COOL STORY BRO.


  • @trose18 well it is hard to go away from my sister since we both go to the same university and other thing is that she kinda like being around me cause she knew she would receive encouraging words while me on the other hand would receive those annoying words, at least thats what i thought. But thank you for your advice!


  • @sᴛᴏɴᴇʙʀɪᴅɢᴇ well thank you for the compliment then.


  • @greentealover tips from me : go find a friend uglier than you, because u will look beautiful than her XD (Desperate Mode)


  • @trose18 more beautiful*

  • Gamers

    @greentealover tips from me : go find a friend uglier than you, because u will look more beautiful than her XD (Desperate Mode)