this is a ...disturbing topic, care to shed some background? any time of violence or abuse is not tolerated here or in person
Boyfriend checking girls out constantly
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My boyfriend keeps checking out girls in front of me, he would do head Turing multiple times until the girls went out of sight, like if the girls do down an escalator he would look down after, at first I would pretend I didn’t see it but it’s so obvious that it’s really disrespectful. I told him don’t do that when he’s with me, when we first started dating he would comment on girls outfit like their leggings or their body, I said I don’t feel comfortable but he still checks them out so obviously after more than a year of us dating. He did it so frequently that I now will subconsciously walk faster when we’re out together or look around in restaurant and not talk to him as much so that I don’t have to see where his eyes are looking because mainly he’s checking out girls the next table or some girls walking towards us, I just tried to protect my peace and avoid seeing that but that’s really not healthy and I know. He apologised after I told him that really make me feel uncomfortable but his behaviour just remained the same. He said I didn’t understand him and all men would do the same. I love him but I’m really tired, can someone please talk to me.
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Hey.. I think that's a toxic trait and that's bound to make you uncomfortable. You need to have a serious talk with him.
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First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.
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My neighbor is a married counter-terrorist with 5 women on the side. His wife knows about his side quests but chose to stick to him because she knows bro a good boy😂 Idk if you're gonna create rules and say he shouldn't go beyond arm's length with any of the other girls or just ignore and ride on the trust you have for him.
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hey girl i get you. I have a bf and i get that same fear when i walk into a room with girls with fatass and think my bf might look. Look i’m not trying to make you feel like your carzy because you are probably not and this guy is just toxic asf. The truth is that sometimes out significant other is gonna look at people and we are never gonna be okay with it but it just depends what type of intentions they have by looking. Like we all have looked at a gym girls but before and we didn’t have bad intentions were just like “damn she ate” guys could do the same thing. There a difference between checking out and looking and you have to make sure you know the difference because making a hash decision
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hi do u want to chat with me
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@Cantoproblem girlie.. nothing worse than I guy using his words but not his actions. What's the point of him apologising if he didn't change? He is disrespecting YOU. And no! Not all men do that. If he loves you truly he wouldn't check out girls for 2 reasons. First is out of respect for you and your wish for him to not do it and second is him not needing to look at other girls to being with if he was in love with you! Girl I know you love him and I know it hurts. But trust me that love feeling will not go forever and you will feel love again but with a better person this time! Test your man before dating him and KNOW YOUR WORTH. Always always remember : a relationship is supposed to bring you peace and make you see the beauty of life. If you feel unhappy with him, then this is pointless.
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It depends on why he chose you as gf to start with . If I was a girl I wouldn't even give him a chance to look to other girls , It will end instantly and forever.. IF YOU ARE NOT " THE ONE " FOR HIM , HE IS NOT " THE ONE " FOR YOU .
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@Pamela wdym by " Perfectly natural " ???? Being straight is perfectly natural and here you are a perfect bisexual woman that deviates from the mainstream NATURAL path of human beings ! Hypocricy learns from you at this point . Is using a strapon natural ? Putting a dick in the place where shit goes out natural ? 😂
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@TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.
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@Pamela Criticism, dear intellectual, always contains a mention of the opposite of what a person believes in.. If I mentioned your sexual identity and described it as anomaly outside the normal path, then this does not make me obsessed with you!! Secondly, it is disgraceful to claim that a man looking at a woman other than his beloved is natural! It is a disgrace and a great insult to her! As if her presence by his side was not enough for him!! It's a great shame.. Finally, you have to understand the difference between open-mindedness and giving in to desires. Open-mindedness is thinking about something carefully and carefully, and then making a decision to accept or reject it. While giving in to desire is acceptance without thinking.
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@TM do you feel sad just because @Pamela does not want you like the way you expect? Quit disturbing her anyway, there is no need for you to do critics about her sexual orientation nor sexual life. This is all about that girl who felt disappointed by her bf that always checked "good-looking-lingerie-bikini" girls. Thats irrelevant object.
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@G-A You make 0 sense . She mentioned a term " Natural" to justify a shameful behavior saying that a man checking out on girls body parts while he's with his beloved one is natural ! That's why I replied on her sexual orientation that it's not natural ! She allowed herself to describe a disgraceful behaviour as natural and I allowed myself to describe her sexual orientation not natural SIMPLE. plus replying to your assumption that I need attention or care from pamela I say : I'm TM not GA I'm not a slave or a simp to run after anyone becs I have something you never heard about it's called DIGNITY .
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@TM said in Boyfriend checking girls out constantly:
@G-A You make 0 sense . She mentioned a term " Natural" to justify a shameful behavior saying that a man checking out on girls body parts while he's with his beloved one is natural ! T
Firstly first, everyone is entitled with their opinion. You cant change someone's opinion just because you think you are right in every room. Clearly, you make no sense here. There is no relevant objective like you stated as it is her opinion about the questions of "why boys like to check girls out even if they have their own partner".
That's why I replied on her sexual orientation that it's not natural ! She allowed herself to describe a disgraceful behaviour as natural and I allowed myself to describe her sexual orientation not natural SIMPLE.
Secondly, there is no correlation between her sexual orientation with her opinion. You can not put someone's in the corner just because you think it is not natural. Explain me, what is the correlation between someone's opinion with her gender and orientation? So it means that Gay, Bi, Pan, Asexual or even Demisexual can not have their opinions just because YOU CLAIM THEM NOT NORMAL? Please define me what is normal?
plus replying to your assumption that I need attention or care from pamela I say : I'm TM not GA I'm not a slave or a simp to run after anyone becs I have something you never heard about it's called DIGNITY .
yes, you seem need her attentions. By attacking her personal preference, gender, opinion and orientations, those things clearly out of subject that @Pamela stated previously on her comments.
Anyway thanks for being so dumb in here 🤗
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@G-A what opinion you Slave? She said " NATURAL" the word natural used in her sentance means only one thing : " Men will look to other girls by default " as if it's part of our nature to be distracted by sexual content or women's sexual body parts even when we are engaged with a wife or gf or lover ( whatever ) ... !!!!! This is completly wrong . A loyal man will never be attracted by other women when he is loyal to his partner . Second of all , the relation between her sexual orientation and what I mentioned is simply the word " Natural" that she used in a wrong way ! She think it's natural for a man to look to other women body parts while he is engaged just like she thinks it's natural to be gay ! And both has nothing to do with the " Nature" of a human being . BECAUSE NO ONE IS BORN GAY AND NOT ALL MEN ALLOW THEIR DICK TO CONTROL THEIR BRAIN !! She missused the word maybe " Normal" would be considered as a word to fit in an opinion not natural . In both ways It'a bad to say what she said .
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@TM said in Boyfriend checking girls out constantly:
@G-A what opinion you Slave? She said " NATURAL" the word natural used in her sentance means only one thing : " Men will look to other girls by default " as if it's part of our nature to be distracted by sexual content or women's sexual body parts even when we are engaged with a wife or gf or lover ( whatever ) ... !!!!!
😂 he has no idea. I bet this TM had no experience with girls before.
This is completly wrong . A loyal man will never be attracted by other women when he is loyal to his partner . Second of all , the relation between her sexual orientation and what I mentioned is simply the word " Natural" that she used in a wrong way ! She think it's natural for a man to look to other women body parts while he is engaged just like she thinks it's natural to be gay ! And both has nothing to do with the " Nature" of a human being . BECAUSE NO ONE IS BORN GAY AND NOT ALL MEN ALLOW THEIR DICK TO CONTROL THEIR BRAIN !!
Clearly he has no idea about sexual life and how dick works 😂
She missused the word maybe " Normal" would be considered as a word to fit in an opinion not natural . In both ways It'a bad to say what she said .
Another clueless things. TM seems have to have a gf first then he will understand. Come back when you can have a gf.
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@G-A Hahaha you know you shouldn't have said that being GA the slave and miserable simp 😂 . You literally just sit here imagining judith with no bra 😂 . 0 Dignity 0 self respect . Go become a Man then speak to TM 😎
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@TM said in Boyfriend checking girls out constantly:
@G-A Hahaha you know you shouldn't have said that being GA the slave and miserable simp 😂 .
Ok
You literally just sit here imagining judith with no bra 😂 . 0 Dignity 0 self respect .
😂 fyi, i never tried to imagine Judith without bra, naked, or even using only her pants. Clearly, your head is only about sex, boobs, penis and vagina
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@G-A 😏 you called her your wife for what ? To imagine her cooking ? 😂😂
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@TM for a good prayer that i can marry her :)
