• im bored so...

    Tell me something you hate about yourself. Could be anything, from appearance to personality trait.


  • Well I have a problem with what you asked . I will tell you why . First the hate of oneself comes from only one place , It is the ignorance and lack of knowledge . To be more specific I will give you a good example : Imagine you are an ugly monster with some deformation in your body and half blind and can bearly hear anything and you can't even speak bcz ur mute ! The worst Imaginary being you can Imagine to be .. but on the other side you can hold a pen and write whatever comes to your brain and god created you as a talented story teller with a strong wide Imagination and a deep thinker that can be so accurate describing whatever you want plus you can spend 10 hours straight writing and diving deep into yourself .. sooner or later this light that comes out of your soul will completely burn all of the negative reality of being abnormal and you will create a strong will to adapt to your own crisis and be content and spiritually higher than all the normal fine looking people .. etc . I think you got the message . It's all about how you look into life and how you choose to see yourself and on what level of maturity , understanding , tolerance , faith , love , acceptance you are. So I can't tell you anything I hate about myself becz I have quit comparing my self to others since I was a teenager.. all the low self confidence , misery , depression and vulnrubality comes from the Idea of " How the people see me ? How to be better than others ? How to impress the society ? How to lead everyone in my group of aquaintances ? Why my friend got money more than me ? Why this girl chose the other guy and not me ? " and hundreds but thousands of similar questions and thoughts that only make you believe that you should change who you are to be above others . But guess what , if you go on this road .. you will lose your Identity and your soul .


  • @TM very well said. The question I asked is mostly stemming from my own self-war. I have been hating myself for these past months. From my appearance to my personality. I keep thinking and thinking about the things I did in the past, like was I ever present? Was I ever loved, or heard or seen? Was I the person I thought to be? I feel like I am losing my identity within myself. I am not confident, I never was, I am not pretty enough, I am not good enough. Thats what I think most of the time. The one thing I hate is other people asserting authority over me. I do not want that ever. So if I sense the slightest clue that that's whats happening I go wild. and then i feel guilty. I comfort myself and move on. But then it happens again. and again. its a loop of sadness and despair and anxiety. im so tired.


  • @vanteindo I feel you . Promise yourself to be a better person in the future and focus only on what you love .. The more you link yourself to how others think of you the more you lose confidence . Tell yourself " IM OUT OF THIS GAME" and the diary of the past and start writing a new story .


  • @TM yes, i try to just focus on me and my goals, cause remembering and overthinking about past will only trigger more emotions.


  • I'm a hypocrite. I give advice that I can't take myself. I know this but I won't change.


  • @Meh_meh sad to say a lot of us a re liek this, myself included


  • @vanteindo --I don't feel like I'm very attractive at all.I like talking to women,rather than men,but most of them just turn away from me.


  • @ImRich it takes time to love oneself. and accept oneself. think of yourself as a petal that keeps on growing. You are more than your mere appearance. you are a bundle of vast creations and joy. learn to love yourself and everything will fall into it's place.